how to talk to girls
how to get over being shy
2006-07-22 11:57:52 · 9 answers · asked by renired09baller 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
im shy and ive found that the only way to work around it is to socialize more. the more you get used to being around people and talking to people, the easier it will become.
theres no way of waking up and all of a sudden youre not shy anymore. it takes work. dont get so hung up about it and dont worry about looking or sounding silly at times...you have to put yourself out there in order to open up more.
2006-07-22 12:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Lola P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a good, rational look at how other people see you. Many people who are shy tend to have missed "mirror time" as youngsters. Mirror time is when you really take the private time to look at yourself in a full length mirror. It's all about body image. This works. Spend time in front of a full-length mirror in attractive lighting (candles are great for this. They accent and shadow the body for a more revealing perspective.) Dance and move and observe your body in motion, at rest, posturing, acting, balancing, etc. Video yourself walking, sitting, turning around. Take notes about how other people may view you, by your appearance, style, hair, clothes, hygiene, jewelry. Muse about your image, and the image you'd like to have. Then, make changes if you want. Shy people can also feel shy because they reveal too much about themselves, and that makes them feel vulnerable. So, don't show your hand with people right away. Keep your image, language, attitude, fashions, etc. in a quiet, dignified gear until you gain confidence.
2006-07-22 20:25:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually like to be engaged in something, like an adventure or a game. Try sports and movies, or amusement parks they will bring u down to earth, then u can go shopping, and thru all this when the boring moments come u can bring up these good memories, or by then you would of lost the shyness already which ever one comes first. She sounds hot to me. Girls also like security so you have to lose the shyness fast. But dont get to anxious either, be a solid and consistent person. Dont be something your not either. and good luck bro! HA hA no pressure! Relax, just be fun. A corny fun is better than no fun.
2006-07-22 20:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by the sponge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im really shy to if your around someone you like i guess its a sign saying you just like the person dont worry it happens to other people it happens to me 2
2006-07-22 19:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by singlegirl3000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you talk to guys. except maybe a little nicer. Be yourself. and soon you will get over being shy.
2006-07-22 19:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like the girl u r talking to is part of your family. just remeber that they are not blood related ok, Just be your self don't act like someone eles, because you want her to fall in love for who you really are.
2006-07-22 20:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Greger J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this.......how would a confident guy talk?..how would a confident guy act? what would a confident man say?................. then DO IT!......... the answers are already inside of you!! you are already a confident guy hidden somewhere in yourself under some stupid old beliefs that aren't even true........SO GO FOR IT!!. by the way there is no normal or abnormal in this department..
2006-07-22 20:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail or IM them.. The internet does WONDERS to self esteam
2006-07-22 19:21:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetfire101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- open mouth
2 talk
2006-07-22 19:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by jyd9999 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋