is orgasm important to you? or do you love othe things about sex..mention them please
2006-07-22 11:55:36 · 11 answers · asked by whatever 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Order of importance (to me anyway):
-foreplay (either very planned and cuddly, dinner, movie, talking OR really spontaneous, throw me on the bed and take right now - very cool, women think alot, so either give them the chance to think it all out, or not at all)
-orgasm(for most women this will not be achevied with regular sex, and don't feel bad about it if you're a guy and can't make the girl climax during it....it's normal!! find other ways...anything...i won't go into to detail...talk about it with her)
-cuddling (women feel vulnerable after sex, so you have to cuddle and hug them, and talk, don't watch tv or anything)
- hope that helps :o)
2006-07-22 12:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by amy_2006 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are, but I am now 40. If women have peaks, as some people call them, I would like to know when! I can only speak for myself but an orgasm happens very rarely, and it is not because of my husbands performance. ( we have only been married 4 years) women are just different from men. most of the time, I wouldn't say that I enjoyed it but, there is a closeness, and you know that he will leave you alone for a few days, no matter how much you love them, sometimes you just want to say hands off!
2006-07-22 12:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had both types of woman partners - those who have to have a big O or multiple Os...and others who seem to enjoy the huggin touchin squeezin with sometimes an O. Seems variable female to female just as nipple play can bring some to near O while others are more stimulated down below. Viva la differance!
2006-07-22 12:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the other side of the fence, it's not just women who don't have orgasms you know. I've had sex without climaxing several times and it was still a very nice experience.
2006-07-22 12:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Robert W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a woman that didn't have an orgasm when I had sex with her and yes they enjoyed every hour of it.
2006-07-22 11:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually have to use a vibrator to climax during sex. But i often don't bother, i really enjoy sex and dont neccesarily have to come, on a few rare occasions i feel frustrated if i've got close, but not gone over the edge, in that case i get my man to use his hands or i use my vibrator.
2006-07-22 12:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by kerry s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do & yes an orgasm is important but its not necesssarly all about that it has much more meaning to it.
2006-07-22 12:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by jewels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love recieving oral sex, then intercourse. Thats the only way I like to do it. Of course, there's always the quickie, for the man's sake.
2006-07-22 13:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd agree with Robert W.
Sex for me is as much mental as it is physical.
Sex should always be with a special person.
2006-07-22 12:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess so...as long as there is something going inside of you that is fine with them...and all those friction
2006-07-22 11:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋