He has them ever other weekend, and they are not well behaved kids, they are disrespectful, spoiled should I go on.
2006-07-22 11:19:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, maybe when he has his kids, you should leave the house for that weekend...get a room somewhere until some sort of common grounds can be established.
You should definitely talk this over with him, if you haven't. Keep in mind that those kids have his blood...
2006-07-22 11:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by R C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good or bad, they are his children. They were his children before you ever came into the picture. He would be a horrible parent/person if he chose you over them.
That said, you might try conversation. If you are in public with your partner and notice other children behaving similar to his, point it out and instead of making negative comments, ask him what he thinks those parents should do to resolve the problem... then make some suggestions of your own. If he doesn't get it, then be a little more direct. Suggest he and his children get some counseling. Out of control children aren't just the problem of the parents and partners to the parents... it's a problem with society.
2006-07-24 02:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dustin Lochart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His children are going to come before you, as it should be, but you could talk to him about how they act. You are not their parent or teacher so you cannot tell them what to do. Anyway one weekend every two weeks is not that often.
Message from Caven: When they are in my house I think I have all the right in the world to tell them what they can and can not do.
Reply: No, you don't. They are children. It has been proven that after around 9 years old they will only be hurt and not change their ways of acting if anyone trys to step in as a parent figure who is not their parent, and it's easy to see you don't know the first thing about kids and are no parent. If they have to be told how to act then their parent should do it. It doesn't matter who's house it is. They tell the same thing to step-parents.
2006-07-22 18:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your partner likes his kids so if you don't get with the program you might get tossed. You simply have to make an effort to get along with them. Only then, after it is clear that you do get along with them, only then can you request a weekend away from them, and it must seem like your partner's suggestion. That is simply how relationships work.
2006-07-23 03:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh i cant stand this womans kids either, there so fking ruse, ie tonight they left their dinner on the table half eaten potatoes and drumsticks, i aid really arent you going throw it in the bin if youre done with it ? i get from the girl (who pisses me off no end) so ??, i said youre mom didnt buy food for you to waste youre ok with that ??, i get a so ??.......thats when i lose it slam the door and drive home, meanwhile mom opens a can of bourbon and drinks....grrrrrr............i cant fking stand her, and the brother is just as fking stupid and rude.....
time to move on i say.........
2013-10-30 04:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take some time for yourself every other weekend...you don't say how old his kids are ut they can't be around forever.
2006-07-22 20:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them? Don't actually kill them -- you'd probably get in trouble.
Become the wicked step-mother.
2006-07-23 09:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well blood is thicker than water....you dont expect him to chuck his kids for you do u?
2006-07-22 21:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats life
2006-07-22 18:35:29 · answer #9 · answered by dugbuggy22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him! u shouldnt be gay anyways! ewww thats gross! u probably cant even hear when u fart!
2006-07-23 17:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋