I live far away from my bf.. and now the distance has pi$$ed me off enuff! he is messing me about but i still want to have him when i go on hols as my folks live in his area.. should i just cheat on him in the mean time?
2006-07-22 11:15:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
If you have any hopes of a future with him--DON'T CHEAT!!!!
Karma has a way of smacking you right in the face when you least expect it.
Be the mature one in the situation, and tell him how sucky it is being alone all the time. if the two of you can't reach some middle ground, then take a time-out from him, but do it with class!!
Nobody ever said Love was easy, but it can be awesome if you want it to work.
2006-07-22 11:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
If you're willing to cheat on your boyfriend then you must not really like him. What you should do is say that the distance is really affecting you and you need to take a break. Then when youre in the area you can call him up and hangout. You need to have a relationship where you live now and find new people to experience your life with. A relationship where you don't see him often is'nt always healthy. You cant hangout whenever you want, you can't kiss him everyday, or experience adventures with him.
2006-07-22 11:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're only 16 years old and you're already planning on cheating on your boyfriend? You are doomed. Your morals have just gone down the crapper.
Were you raised by white trash parents who cared more for their 1977 El Camino than they did for you?
Well if you're already this messed up in the head, you might as well just give up on ever having a good life. Get used to being on welfare, having two or three babies before the age of 20, and driving around in a 1980's Buick Skylark.
No good man will ever want a girl like you ever again, so you might as well start dating prisoners. At least that way you can have somebody to get drunk with when they're out on parole.
I would pitty you, but you're not really worth another thought.
2006-07-22 11:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Idunno 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating on your significant other is never a good thing.
Even, and I say this strongly, even if they have cheated on you first. If they've done that, then consider another option, such as leaving, or accepting their apology, but not revenge.
I agree with the first poster...tell him that you want to see other people, or that the long distance relationship isn't working for you, or something else that allows him a chance to find resolution or to talk to you on the matter.
Honestly, if your considering cheating, he's not the guy for you and you should just consider someone else.
Love as always,
Sebastian
2006-07-22 11:20:22 · answer #4 · answered by octo_boi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. Cheating is overrated and people get hurt. I highly doubt you'd appreciate him doing it to you. If distance is that hard for you then call it off and find a new bf thats alot closer. But if he's special enough to ya then maybe it's worth the wait and the agony of distance.
2006-07-22 11:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by Virginia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't cheat. Just tell him honestly the long distance thing isn't working for you and you want to date other people. Trouble is, he will probably take that to mean you want to break up completely. Oh well, once you start sleeping with people, life does get complicated.
2006-07-22 11:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking about cheating on him, then you obviously don't value your relationship very much anyway. Just break up with him, then you can go be with someone else without guilt. He may even be enough of an idiot to take you back when you go visit your folks again, but don't count on it.
2006-07-22 11:38:22 · answer #7 · answered by Danzarth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cheating is so wrong once you start you dont stop. Think of it like being addicted to something bad I know lots of cheaters. Once, you start your gonna want to cheat over and over with new bf's you make if you guys break up. Then, its gonna hit ya when you want to get married and just trust me it all adds up. Relationships are build on trust.
2006-07-22 11:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by groundbrandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay the thing is, sooner or later he WILL find out if you cheat on him. So why don't you talk to him about it and maybe you can be friends, that way you will still have someone to talk to when you visit the "folks"
Also, I would never cheat on someone.
2006-07-22 11:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like cheating, break up with him. No need to hurt him by cheating and him finding out. Plus, if you are that desperate for attention that you feel you have to cheat, he derserves a girl who would be loyal to him. Let him go so another girl can have her chance,
2006-07-22 11:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by The Nightstarzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋