I'm a female that's had 2 failed marriages. I've hooked up with a couple of girls but never had sex with them. I do get excited by the thought just don't know if I'd like it. I'm kind of embarrassed I guess.
2006-07-22 11:13:46 · 29 answers · asked by courious girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am just gonna raise more questions...my thought is that you are bi curious, same as i. you are curious what it would be like, though you are not sure if you would enjoy it, or if you would even go through with it. the thought of touching another woman's breasts, butt, caressing her curves excites you...but when it comes down to the actions you would be more comfortable being at a strip club where it is expected....not just one-on-one.....
is my assumption correct?
2006-07-26 05:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by DELICIOUS EYE CANDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've date many bi girls it sounds like your bi because you wouldn't get excited at all and straight girls are thrown off at the fact of even hooking up with another girl. Don't be embarrassed take things slow. There are many females out there now a days like you who are bi. And it's not like you even have to tell people because I"ve gone out with bi girls before I"ve meet her parents. And ya she would go on dates with other girls and her parents had no idea it was even going on. But, who cares people don't need to know anyones business anyways. So, ya don't worry it will work out just don't be kissing in public other girls lol and you should be straight to do whatever.
2006-07-22 18:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by groundbrandon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's ever a bad idea to explore your sexuality. Just be careful! (physically & otherwise)...I don't think you'll "know" if you are bisexual until you have some experiences & decide how you feel about them and how you've reacted to them. It also kind of depends on who you ask as to the definition of bisexuality. One definition is determining if you would be equally happy having a long-term sexual (etc.) relationship with a person of either gender. Sorry about your bad experiences - marriage can suck sometimes, huh? And every once in a while, it seems, it can be awesome. Good luck.
2006-07-22 18:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you are having sex with the same gender. It doesn't sound like you're attracted to the same sex. It sounds like you just want to give up on men. Almost every woman goes through that stage. Hang in there. You will meet the right guy, and it's ok to think about other women. Even if you experiment with a woman it doesn't make you bi. It just means you experimented.
2006-07-22 18:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about men.bi-sexual means you like both sexes. Just because you had two failed marriages does not tell us if you like sex with men. Seems like not but we don't know the reason for your divorces.
If you now favor women but think if the right guy came along you would be interested there also, then you are BI.
Only you will know for sure.
2006-07-22 18:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt mean that u fail in 2 relations that ur bi
u never know when ur true luck comes ... its a matter of time ... my advice 2 u ... dont go further in a relation that u will always feel bad about it and want to erase from ur life ... take the advantges of ur past relations ... build ur self again ... trace the NATURE and B optimistic ... live ur life ... and always tell ur self that one day the right man will b next u ...
2006-07-22 18:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by bdoya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do have bisexual feelings and don't act on them, you are probably not bisexual. However, if you do act on them, so what? Have fun, enjoy your relationships with these girls you've hooked up with, and don't care what people think. Live your life, and good luck.
2006-07-22 18:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to recourse to bi-relations in order to compensate for your failed marriages. It's a completely different concept, watch out !!!
2006-07-22 18:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I doubt you're bisexual. I have the exact same feelings (in reverse) and I am not bisexual since I know I'd feel bad afterwards.
2006-07-22 18:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Tomas E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your loose morals are leading you down a destructive path. You may not be a full blown bull dyke yet; it's just a matter of time. Make the right choice; it's not genetic. ^ You a-ssholes are a bunch of Hedonists.
2006-07-22 18:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋