No, I'm not trying to create controversy here . . . it's a legitimate question. I'll turn 40 this year, and have never been married. I am a confident, healthy, intelligent, romantic, not boring, and not too nice man. For some reason though, women hate me because of this.
It would be easy to say that I need to just "be myself" and some woman will eventually appreciate me . . . but that's no longer acceptable. My prime dating days are fading quickly. A change needs to be made, NOW.
With this in mind, what is the best way for me to become a bad boy so that women will want me? Should I slap them around? Cheat on them? Verbally abuse them? I'm open to any and all suggestions. Truly is a shame though that I have to sell my soul, just because I don't want to spend the rest of my life alone.
Only serious responses please.
2006-07-22 11:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by mike_answ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Act like you're better than them. Act like you know you're better than them, but you're trying to be nice. "Yeah, you're... pretty. :) Oh look, chips... " It works.
And it avoids physical abuse... which is a plus most of the time. And you're not even degrading them!
2006-07-22 11:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, you do have a problem.You also sound like an ex-boyfriend of mine.He thought he was too nice,and that's why he couldn't keep a girl.That seems to be a common misconception with a lot of guys.Being mean won't do it.I never broke it off because some guy wasn't slapping me around and insulting me.I married a nice guy.It's just a matter of chemistry for a lot of people.Have you tried meeting women in a lot of different places?I mean,if you've only tried typical singles meeting places,that might be the problem.Being on the other side of the fence,I can't really tell you what to do,but I can tell you that none of the women I know have every gone for a guy that mistreated them,unless that's just what they were into at the time.Good luck,and really,don't try to be something you're not.That usually doesn't work out.
2006-07-22 11:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by kimberli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well, my man is 41 and the reason why he is my man is because he treats me like I am the most special and beautiful woman in the world. He respects and adores me and would never hurt me. That's what you should aspire to. Not being an asshole.
2006-07-22 11:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by southerngirl84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistreating a woman will not make her like you!! You have to respect her, and protect her. If you are abusive you don't need anyone, you deserve to be alone the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 11:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sure is difficult to understand your lack of success with women.
2006-07-22 11:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want a serious response? Well, I think you should stop fooling yourself by chasing women. You and me both know it's not women you want...lol lol!
2006-07-22 11:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go date a gay guy, they won't mind you.
2006-07-22 11:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋