Me and my boyfriend had sex and he got me pregnant and he wants me 2 keep tha baby but i dont want any kids rite now. I dont kno if i should tell my parents or not im afraid wat they might say or do.
Hes 17 and im 14 but is it true that he can go 2 jail for havin sex with me ?
He kinda pressured me into havin sex wit him and im wondering is that rape or not?
but please give good advice on wat i shold do plz
2006-07-22 11:02:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I know your boyfriend. He was just at the free clinic getting an HIV test. I'm sorry, you'll need to be tested ASAP
2006-07-22 12:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if u were ok with havin sex its not rape but if u didn't want it then it is!! but pplo 17 can go out with ppl (and do them) above 18 and under 17 down to 13!!! please just don't get an abortion it is murder and u will regret it i would keep the baby if i were u!!!
2006-07-22 11:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES-it is rape-if you do not want to it is. Talk to your parents, a counselor, someone and get out of the relationship. You are too young to be having sex, let alone having a child. You even admit you don't want one. If he is pressuring you to do things you don't want to he is not worth it.
2006-07-22 11:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Alison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually i dont think it is....at least in PA. However, being pregnant at 14 is not good, you could have some serious damage to your body. You're way to young to have to decide whether or not you want a baby, tell your parents they'll help you.
2006-07-22 13:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pressuring and forcing totally different no its not rape.....Take equal blame because ya'll did it together. Atleast your smart for not wanting kids that young so don't be naive anymore if your not comforatble talking to your parents about it yet, seek someone older to talk to and see a doctor ASAP don't forget to ask god for forgiveness either.
2006-07-22 12:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, first of all, you have the power to say NO. it is sagitory rape. he can go to PRISON for up to 6 years if hes convicted. me and my boyfriend had sex when i was 14 and he was 17, my mom found out and they almost pressed charges on him but i told them how i felt about him and they didnt. if he pressures you into it, you need to tell him no and you dont want to. remember-he isnt in control of you! its up to you if you want to keep the baby, not him. you need to think about it really hard, there are pro's and con's of both giving it up, or keeping it. but make sure you think about it first
2006-07-22 11:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by erika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the same girl that has the story about ow you bf came inot your room and made you have sex arent you
he raped you
but you are the one that was saying that you liked it
dont keep the baby
i thought you had a brain but i guess i was wrong
i take back that compliment that i gave you in the last question
2006-07-22 14:39:12 · answer #7 · answered by Nicolette Martin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok yes he can go 2 jail 4 having sex with u and yes it is rape and yes u should tell ur parents
2006-07-22 13:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry about that. is he willing to help out with the baby or does he just want you to have one? anyways yes that counts as rape if he was preassuring you to do it. just DO NOT get an abortion that is murder its so sad. but if your parents are understanding they might help you raise or raise it as there own or you can put it up for adoption. im really sorry about what happened. i hope all goes well! = )
2006-07-22 12:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said NO then it is rape.I would talk to your parents and if you seriously don't want the baby put it up for adoption
2006-07-22 11:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋