i havent got ANY mates. im such a loner, how can i make friends? i think its cos im fat and ugly that people dont like me. help!
2006-07-22 10:58:39 · 25 answers · asked by stupid 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Look for someone who is similar to you.
Or there is a better way, first try to reduce your weight naturally without any pressure.Then, think about the quote that says:
Why we should be dependent to other people?
2006-07-22 17:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you somethin. God gave you a gift and do you know what that gift is. Well you won't know if you don't go outside and play. Go up to someone or ask them over the computer rate me on a scale 1-10. Forget the ones that give you a bad answer that means they are jealous. If you fat then you just fat. God made you how he wanted to. Go on a diet and exercise. Oh yea Good Luck But I don't think it's nothin wrong with you it might be your imangination just like me. I think I ugly, Fat, and Stupid sometime. Because that's what my sister call me
2006-07-22 18:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by msnewbooty706 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't call your self fat and ugly otherwise you will really believe it and no-one wants to be firends with someone who has such a low opinion of themselves. when you tell yourself something often enough you will truly believe it. So use this to your advantage and tell yourself you are a good person who will make lots of friends then go out and make it happen! when you feel better about yourself you will attract people naturally.
2006-07-22 18:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by beezer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi sweetie sorry to hear your troubles.
It sounds like your lacking in confidence as only narrow minded people judge someone wholly on the way they look and you don't want that sort of person around you anyway they just drain you and ruin your confidence even more.
If your lack of confidence is partly due to your weight then try and do something positive about it you could try joining an exercise class and you'll feel better about yourself as well as meeting people...both things to help.
Also join an evening class or chatting to neighbours or your families friends this will also help you build up your confidence.
Best of luck hun and believe in yourself, focus on your good points and try and enjoy life you deserve too!!!
Take care x x
2006-07-22 18:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by summerbabae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and sign up for an evening class, whatever takes your fancy and you will meet people sharing the same interest as you - I've got some good mates met through a pottery and jewellery making class I went to two yrs ago !
2006-07-22 18:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by fudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How fat and how ugly are you.stop trying to think about how people view you and give out whats inside. If you walk around self loathing people will pick up on it. weight and looks are things we can work on in this day and age.
you say people dont like you, have you asked anyone if they like you, or are you assuming that's the case.
find a gym put in the work as I feel your mind set stems from school.
2006-07-22 18:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Offkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out there. have a drink, you must know someone you can get pi55ed with at work or something like that,
.go to the gym and talk to people,
enrole at a book club,
do charity work,
start a course at college,
there are loads of ways to meet people, and if your honest you know what to do it is all about confidence. honestly. but you have to get on yourself luv. don't think fat and ugly either, it is nothing to do with appearances, your shy thats all.
don't be scared, good luck
2006-07-22 18:14:56 · answer #7 · answered by sparky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say that I'm fat and ugly you need to start going out meeting people its not your face or what you look like what counts its your personality whats important try going to mind found in phone book or get a hobbies like take people out in your spare times like at the hospital or st Anne's people like you are always wanted to help out i do it and love it
2006-07-24 17:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by munchie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all these people who tell you to get off the pc babes need to look at them selves lol what are they doing right now lol, well i think the best way to make friends is just to smile, if you smile someone will smile back, then thats the ice broken, after that try saying hello and before you know it you will be in conversation and then you will have made a friend.if that fails my smiley friend e-mail me i will be your friend x
2006-07-22 19:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by hot fox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe if you stop using the computer and go outside every once and a while you might make more friends. It helps to talk to people too.
2006-07-22 18:01:58 · answer #10 · answered by Myk G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋