ladies what would you do?

Question

my partner come back with a picture on his mobile phone of a women showing her ti t he acturally told me that his freind sent it to is phone i didnt find it on his phone he told me i went mad ofcourse hes never been unfaithfull but i wasnt happy about this

Answer 1

Sory about your problem..... My boyfriend respects me to much to have that kind of stuff in his phone.... Just like i respect him to much that i would never have a picture of a D!@# of someone else in my phone.

Answer 2

I think you are exaggerating things.

He is faithful and it was just a picture send to him by a friend - and he even showed it to you - he didn't keep it secret.

I would say: Calm down. You don't have anything to be afraid of or angry at him.

It's not a nice thing to see, but it is not in the least a catastrophy - and if I were you I would just tell him that you don't like it.

But - don't become jealous without reason.

And yes, I think that this is no reason to get mad.

It is *only* a picture and he even showed it to you - you didn't "find" it, he didn't hide it - that's a very good sign.

There is nothing "horrible" about a pornographic picture, even if it is shocking.

In your place, I would be glad that he is so open to you :-) It seems that you have a nice boy-friend :-)))

Answer 3

Well my boyfriend had a picture of a girl on his phone one day but it was a singer. I told him to take it off and I asked him I said would you like it if I had a picture of a man on my phone and he said hell no and I said well why would you do it. He never done it again and he took the picture off. So maybe tell him how you feel about it, and if he does it again you do the same thing and see how he feels.

Answer 4

I don't know his friend could have sent this picture to his phone if he just flat out told you to your face about the picture. Some friends do this type of thing even if they know that the other friend has a woman of his own.

Answer 5

OH PLEASE....ignore the pic. This guy can see a naked woman anywhere these days and he probably did get it from someone else. Why be jealous of a picture?? You're gonna push him into cheating if you keep being nosey and jealous...why not do what you think he's doing if you're going to believe it anyway (male thinking)? Be more mature than that...laugh it off...and tell him you'll let him replace that pic with one of you topless! Use your brain, Girlfriend.

Answer 6

you can't blame him for his friends stupidity but you can certainly ask why the hec he didn't delete it, that is probably the man moron coming through though. If you believe him tell him to delete it and use better judgement in the future and tell him it wouldn't hurt to let his friend know he's a moron. It also wouldn't hurt for you to browse the net and point out a few exceptionally good looking men to let him know how it feels too! Men generally learn lessons best by getting a taste of their own medicine.

Answer 7

if his friend really sent him the picture and didn't want it then wouldn't he have erased it. sounds kid of bad. and if he's trying to avoid the subject by saying that you're going mad then he's not worth fussing over. try to talk to him and he won't participate in a civil conversation that i say dump the guy.

Answer 8

Ask him to let you see the pic for yourself...then tell him that yours look better. Ask him to delete the pic and to take one of YOUR ****...and that'd be a keeper. Don't fret over the small stuff darlin. Be happy it was a pic of a woman and not of a man...lol.

Answer 9

I would be highly upset about it. If the tables were turn your boyfriend would get very upset if you had a picture of a big penis on your phone.

Answer 10

his friend probably sent it as a joke, but once he realized it was there he should of gotten it taken off, but he told you because he was trying to eliminate the fact that you could get mad if you found it on your own....