I started talking to this guy from the internet two years ago 'note i'm only 23' So we start talking on the internet through a instant messenger, then we was just fooling around thought he would call me and we would talk on the phone for awhile so we did, He had gottin into some trouble that I didn't know about, he got one year in jail, then he came home contacted me on messenger and we start talking again on the phone, it has been 8 months he is on house arrest btw to and has 2 kids, So he has wanted me to come out to see him many times but I always get worried and back out? he says I have no right? do I?
2006-07-22 10:08:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
This is just the kind of manipulation that probably helped land the guy in jail Ness.
When someone claims you "have no choice but to ____ for me", it's someone who is most DEFINITELY not out for your best interest.
He is also the sort of person who will later use his kids to make you feel guilty ... As in: "Stay with me; the kids need you."
I've met this sort many times. Others are right: turn and run. Trust that your hesitance is actually your gut telling you this is a red flag situation. You can do better. Take care and be well.
2006-07-22 10:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rewsna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no right to what? Back out? Why not? It's the internet. you have all the rights in the world.
2006-07-22 17:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go see him he got 2 kids and on freakin house arrest y are u even talkin to this guy
2006-07-22 17:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by chadvolb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of the great Alton Brown "just walk away!"
2006-07-22 17:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't married. You aren't related. You haven't even seen the guy. I think you have every right not to go out and visit him.
2006-07-22 17:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cheater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tear up his number delete him from your friends list block his phone.
bad enough he's under house arrest but he's invited you over and claims you got no right to protest?
dump him... that's trouble you don't want to get mixed up in..
2006-07-22 17:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by BigBadWolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel comfortable with the situation, I would back out. I may save your life.
2006-07-22 17:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Speedy14936670654 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to do anything that u dont want to do just tell him to F*** off and to leave u alone if u dontwant to talk to him
2006-07-22 17:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop talking to him. He's no good.
2006-07-22 17:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from this while you can, you dont know this person and should not take chances with your life!
Please, disconnect yourself from any involvement with him.
2006-07-22 17:14:22 · answer #10 · answered by Kyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋