i am 15 and me and my mom fight all the time she doesnt let me out of the house to go over to my friends house. she will ask me to help her find something and if i cant find it she calls me a retard. and calls me fat whenever i ask for a snack. and when my room is dirty she asks me if i want to go live with the pigs next door. and the pig next door is my dad. when i ask to go see my dad she doesnt let me and then people ask why i dont go see him she says its because i dont want to and thats not true and sometimes when she gets really mad she hits me.
2006-07-22 08:57:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Your mom shouldn't be calling you names, or calling your dad names around you. She's got some issues, and clearly needs some help with it. She shouldn't be hitting you, for any reason. Talk to a trusted adult, either a school counselor or a member of the clergy if you go to church, someone that can help you. Good luck
2006-07-22 09:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow I have almost the same problem, what I do is I get out of the house on things my mom approves of, like jobs baby sitting for her friends, or internships, after school clubs in the religion of her choice, if your mom is an atheist then start an atheist group. Go to whatever political party she likes and volunteer handing out fliers. I hope she's not an atheist because at the times you are at home you tell her that you are busy praying whenever she's around or reading the bible, Torah, etc. Make sure that the whole religion thing doesn't get old and also use homework/housework as an excuse. Never underestimate the power of sucking up.
I know other people are saying that you can run to your dad or another adult, but it won't work I've tried all that stuff and the mom almost all ways wins in court.
Anyway you only have three more years and then she can't keep you from your dad.
2006-07-22 16:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think, that not you but your mum needs help. Try to talk to her about family things and the way you feel, especially about dad. My parents divorced when i was seven years old, but my mum never tried to stop me to see him. And she all the time tried to chear me up when i was sad or naughty. Of course, teen age is not the best age, but to kid it is very important, they find out a lot of new things, first date, first kiss, and other... If you fighting with your mum and she treats you like that, try to talk to her seriously. Maybe she feels bad about living alone, sometimes women get depressed when they divorce. It is a serious problem, but it is not your fault. If it won't help, try to talk to your aunt or grandma.
2006-07-22 16:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by ch_zana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats actually verbal abuse, and thats just sad. Sorry. Talk with a friend, or sneak over to your dads. Your mom needs help.
2006-07-22 16:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shoudl try to talk to your dad! my mom was the exact same way and WORSE!! she would call me fat out of no where! just cuz she felt like it! also if I did something wrong she would hit me over and over! I talked to my dad one night after things got really bad! ((I became annorexic at 13 weighed 103 dropped down to 79)) she punched me in the stomach and broke 3 ribs! I called my dad ((who lived in NC and I lived in PA)) and he made me live w/him!
2006-07-22 16:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by NC_baby_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the teen hotline--1-800-448-3000. they help me with everything. my dad used to be like that. you need to sit down and talk with her about how you are feeling, and if she interupts you, tell her that you need to talk, not her.
2006-07-22 16:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by erika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I recommend a foster mother?
2006-07-22 17:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by RuneScape Player 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go and see your dad she needs to chill i have a preteeen and somrtimes fights happen but you need to tell her how u feel
2006-07-22 17:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom should noyt treat you like that my dad is worse well talk to your dad and tell him to help you or tell him to talk to her or something
2006-07-22 16:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to an adult who can help you. This sort of behavior, if true, is not acceptable.
2006-07-22 16:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋