what should i do if i am deeply in love with this guy and everytime i look at him i start to cry. if we are at the same place and he does not tell me anything then i get pissed off and get violent. i keep crying and crying for him and i just dont know what to do. please someone help me. i am very desperate.
2006-07-22 08:35:42 · 8 answers · asked by Ali's Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell the turth because it will make you feel better
I don't know much about love but this advise may help
GOOD LUCK!^_^
2006-07-22 08:45:35 · answer #1 · answered by mini 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's adress 2 problems here, with the most worrysome first:
If you get angry and violent because you can't have your way(have him), then you most certainly do have an anger problem---and anger is depression, therefore treatable. So to adress this issue you need to go to a doctor and be referred to a counselor.
Next the issue with starting to cry when you see him. You have not explained if you are in any kind of casual or closer kind of relationship. It sounds, however, like you are following him. This is called stalking, and stalking is considered a crime in the United States. You cannot persistently follow someone around without expecting that you never have to pay for that. First of all, if he is getting tired of it he can press charges. Next, if he considers other options--like not ever wanting to talk to you, that is also a penalty for you because you do not want this to happen, right?
The best thing for you is to seek counseling for those 2 issues and to try and move on---we all cannot have everything in life, and this looks like you do not want to accept that you cannot have him by stalking him....
2006-07-22 08:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you two friends ? If not , you are getting psycho with this guy and its probably best you use that energy towards something else, a hobby. Why get all wired up when this person ignores you (if thats the case) you got to move on.
2006-07-22 08:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Eta_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter, I'd get you to a counselor very quickly as you need help dealing with your feelings. They must engulf you. Help is available.
2006-07-22 08:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you sound a bit syko keep away from the poor lad he will end up hateing you if thats the way you go on
2006-07-22 08:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by clairebtint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a phsyco. Calm down and try to control your hormones around him or he will have nothing to do with you.
2006-07-22 08:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by skigod377 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound suicidal, seek professional health
2006-07-22 08:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit stalking him.If he's not interested,move on.
2006-07-22 08:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by hanko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋