my husband and I are moving out of state. OK , My brother lives with us and is moving out of state as well. Well that was fine till he won't give us no money for the move on a truck or a roof over our heads. And, he is wanting to move in with us in our new place. We are pissed. what do you guy's think about that? I m realy upset and want to calm down. He did not even help us pack. All he does is drink his beer and play on his computer and take naps after working. what a life.
2006-07-22 08:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by sweat mamma bear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well for starters you have allowed it to happen and he has become accustom to his new life style. So you have to be the one to change it. I suggest you tell him your family is moving and he is not. He needs to grow up and be self sufficient. You are only enabling him to act this way. Once you put your foot down either he changes or you leave him in a trail of dust from the uhaul sitting on the side walk wondering what he is going to do. No reason you have to carry all the weight and he carries none. You need to stop being so nice to him and make him grow up.:) Good luck on your move :)
2006-07-22 08:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by young at heart 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is a mooch. So tell him that when you move, he's not coming with you. He can move to the same town, but he's not living in your house. If you give him an inch, he'll take a mile. He can get mad, but he's the one doing you wrong. He's an adult and should have his own place. If he don't like that, then tell him that's just too tough. Time to grow up. If you let him move with you, then he'll just continue to mooch off of your family...eating your food, using your electricity, and not be willing to pay a penny. As I said earlier, time for him to grow up, and time for you to put your foot down. Best of luck.........
2006-07-22 15:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the brother behind if he refuses to do his share, let him learn that nothing in life comes free. It's hard to do to someone you love, but we all have to grow up and often it takes tough love to help those like your brother sweetie. My prayers and thoughts are with you cause I've been there with a sister.
2006-07-22 15:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Daydream Believer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give him the boot, tell him what is expected from you guys ...he's under your roof....it hurts that its family but its got to stop...put your foot down. Family is Family but not when they dont help or take in part of something like helping out with you two.
2006-07-22 15:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Eta_11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid bro would not be moving ! You are moving and it's time for a new fresh start leave the excess baggage behind.
2006-07-22 15:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in a strict way if you're gonna live with us you gotta start helping out with the rent and everything else you're not living here for free i only accepted you because you're my brother and if you're gonna act like this you better find someone who can put up with you because i cant that's what i would say
2006-07-22 15:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by crazy4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him an apartment.
2006-07-22 15:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋