Someone asked about ... if anyone would want to spend time with him for his 40th birthday oming up soon- he sort of made an open invitation for people to join him for his birthday. I amy have been a bit insentive, in my answer. Now I am feeling so remorseful, waht do you think I should do?
One of the reasons, that I'm feeling this remorse is that I'm having a birthday the first week of August- and I'm going to be alone too. I guess I was trying to compensate my inadequacies by "burning" or "slamming" another human being. Why am I so evil and heartless?
2006-07-22 08:21:53 · 27 answers · asked by ••Mott•• 6 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
How admirable of you to be willing to admit what you did. Go back to that question and see if by clicking on his email you can contact him. Tell him just what you've said here. Let him know that you really do hope he has a happy birthday and that you are really sorry for being so insensitive. We are all vulnerable to our feelings every once in a while and say things that we really didn't mean and later regret. Don't regret - fix it. You'll both feel much better. Hey, email me and let me know when your birthday is - I'll be glad to email you a little birthday greeting. I know its not the same but maybe it will help brighten your day....
2006-07-22 16:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sonie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not heartless you are just feeling bad because you are going to be alone on your birthday. Just ask a friend to go out to dinner or fix dinner in and share some conversation. I have never once had a birthday party or anything like that. Most of my birthdays I have been working which takes my mind off of the day. If the person you left your insensitive answer for knew how you were feeling and why I am sure they would understand. So don't be so hard on yourself. And HAPPY BIRTHDAY early!!!!!
2006-07-22 08:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by lostinlove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all an evil heartless person you are not... this 40 year old inviting thousands of people to his birthday online is probably a major pervert you might have saved someone from like major pain and a rape or something... maybe if you want you could appologize but thinking you are heartless never helped anyone
2006-07-22 08:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by crack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason you are feeling remorse is that you are also going to be alone on your birthday?
I guess that if you were not going to be alone on your birthday, you would not feel any remorse.
Well.....Happy birthday anyway.
Life is what you make of it.
2006-07-22 08:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by festus_porkchop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay we all have those kinds of days just apologize and if you can't its nice enough that you apologized about it. I'm sorry that you have to spend your Birthday alone when is it I'll send you a message saying Happy Birthday.
2006-07-22 08:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pretty Brown Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you answered should be on your home page under "questions answered." Tell him you're sorry and show him what you wrote above. Have a happy birthday! And I hope that guy has a happy birthday too!
2006-07-22 08:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it came to you that you are going to be alone for your birthday and now you realize how it is going to feel. always watch what you say before you say it because you may not beable to take it back and it could really hurt someone in the process. as the bible says do unto others as you would want done to you.
2006-07-22 08:26:06 · answer #7 · answered by ghostly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, well, well. it's you 'saucey! haven't talked to you in a while. so you're feeling sh!tty cuz of something you said, huh? been there, done that. just appologize and wish the guy a happy birthday. he will see that you are being sincere and will TOTALLY forgive you. and you'll be 100% guilt free! plus, who could stay mad at a guy as adorably cartoony as you, huh? hope this works!
always me,
Bo-Bana
2006-07-23 15:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by from3ndto3nd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just edit your response and apologize. The fact that you are remorseful means you have a conscience!
2006-07-22 14:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a human u made mistake but it is u r responsibility too to correct it and u r tryin that u can send him apology if u know his email id or even the user name in this page. This really shows wat u are and he'll get a b'day gift from u in this way
2006-07-22 08:27:27 · answer #10 · answered by shafi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋