When i was in my mommy's tummy. she went to rouine check ups and there was 2 of us. when me and my twin was born. no doctor was in the room. they left in this dark room by herself. she delivered on her own and some one with a surguical mask came in and took my twin brother/sister. my mom told them:"where are you taking my baby" as they rushed out of the room. As my mom explained to me. And she think that my dad had something to do with it. And they separated a little after I was born. when he called her crazy! And we moved overseas. Everybody was so exited since theyfound out that my mom was carrying twins. I think about it till today oif my dad was involved. and why wasn;t anybody in the room with her. And ever since today nobody talks about it like nothign happened. I bring it up sometimes. Theyre like yeah we remember...But it's like they want to forget. Theyre was a lot of black market babies going on around that time. This happened in Pittsburgh, PA. this is kind of lame to ask...
2006-07-22 08:19:00 · 5 answers · asked by blah blah 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
I'm 22 years old now...(i say him and her because when my momwent for her ultra sounds she wanted it to be a suprise.)
The whole familly 6 bro and sis were there to see us in her womb when she went to the docs. I just dont get how these things could happen. I'd like to find out if there are any steps I can take to find him/her.
where can I start?
2006-07-22 08:21:17 · update #1
well im in california now..ive been in the states for 6 years now. My mom passed away a little bit after I got here. And I kinda just met my dad you can say. But we aren;t really that close. I know him as daddy he came to see us a few times for a few days. But were just weird around eachother. when i lived overseas I got to know him over the phone and as the person who sent me money that's about it. no emotions. And now he tries to be involed in my life, I havea hard time opening up with him. Because he was never there for me my whole life. he works all the time out of the country. He live in NC by the way. And when I brought it up a few years ago. He kinda brushed me off like he didn't know what I was talking about. And I cried.
Because it made me confused. I believe my mom but at the same time I fell like he's insulting my mom or trying to tell me to just forget it.It's the past. I know she wasn't crazy. I mean why would she take me from the US all the way to Sweden to protect me
2006-07-22 08:36:31 · update #2
is hiring a private investigator/ detective expensive?
2006-07-22 08:37:22 · update #3
SORY IF MY STORY SOUNDED UN BELIEVABLE BUT IT DID HAPPENED. A LOT OF BABIES ARE ON THE BLACK MARKET UNTIL TODAY. TRUST ME! AND THE HOSPITAL KEEP THIS A SECRET TO KEEP THEIR JOBS!! AND I THINK IT'S SO WRONG. YEAH THEIR MIGHT STILL BE RECORDS AT THE HOSPITAL. MY MOM DIVORCED MY DAD OVER THIS.
SHE DIDN'T EXACTLY TELL ME WHY. SHE JUST TOLD AFTER THE SECOND BABY DISAPEARED SHE WAS SCARED OF WHAT HE WAS CAPABLE OF DOING AND TOOK MY AWAY FOR MY PROTECTION. HE WAS THERE FOR THE BIRTH OF MY OTHER 5 BROTHER AND SISTERS TOOK PICTURES OF THEM. EXEPT FOR ME!! HE WASN;T THERE IN THE ROOM. SHE WAS PLACED IN A DARK ROOM. SHE WAS NOT DREAMING. MY MOM TRIED. I ASLED MY OLDEST SISTER SHE TRIED TO GET TO THE BOTTOM OF IT. BUT THEN SHE JUST GAVE UP.
SHE DIDN;T KNOW THE SEX OF THE OTHER ONE. BUT THERE WERE 2 BODIES IN HER WOMB. THE WHOLE FAMILLY REMEMBERS THAT DAY. AND HOW HAPPY EVERYONE WAS. I WOULD LIKE TO JUST FIND CLOSURE TO THIS. FOR MY MOM(RIP) AND MYSELF. I FEEL LIKE HE/SHE IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE.
2006-07-27 07:34:41 · update #4
SHE WAS UNDER DRUGS, BUT STILL AWAKE... SHE KNOWS SHE WASN'T HALLUCINATING SOMEONE TAKING HER BABY.
AND IF IT WAS A DEAD FETUS. THE HOSPITAL WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING. THE PERSON IN THE MASK CUT THE ABELICAN CORD(HOWEVER YOU SPELL THAT) WRAPPED THE BABY UP AND STORMED OFF. AND A FEW SECONDS LATER THE NURSES N STUFF. CAME IN THE ROOM. DID THEIR BUISNESS. AND MY DAD WAS NEVER IN SIGHT.
"SHE TOLD THE NURSES WHERE'S MY BABY!?"
AND THEY DIDN'T ANSWER. THEY DID WHAT THEY DID. ROUTINE. CLEANED UP ETC..TODL HER SHE HAS A HEALTHY GIRL.THEN GAVE ME TO HER.
2006-07-27 07:40:14 · update #5
Its never weird to ask a question. Prices vary, don't just pick the first private investigator you find. You need to find someone who can empathize you. The more the more this investigator cares the better results you will obtain. Finding a police officer isn't a bad idea, but they're not reliable, again you must really find one cares. In this point in time its not so easy. Believe when I say best of luck and my God be with you.
2006-07-22 11:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by RoRo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes a private detective will be expensive. Honestly I don't see any other way to find out anything. I cannot imagine a woman left in a dark room in a hospital to give birth on her own in the hospital in 1984. It seems highly unlikely. I do think this is what your mother believes happened, but there is a possibility she is wrong about the events. Maybe people dont want to talk about it because they don't believe your mom, she is the only one who saw baby 2. However if it was true and there was another baby, finding that baby would be a miracle. There is just no way to do a search like that. The child does not know they were stolen and there wouldn't be any adoption records. As for your dad possibly being involved, he would have had to have all the doctors and nurses agree to his plan (generally dr and nurses are ethical people) and make sure knowone saw or heard your mother giving birth. I would say it is highly unlikely you dad had a grand scheme to get rid of a child.
If in the check ups there were two babies why wouldn't your mothers doctor confirm that? Was there an ultrasound that the dr office would have records of? In the 80's ultrasounds were rarely performed. Perhaps the dr said it was a possibility there were twins. As for everyone else, if your mother said there were two babies how would they know for sure, they wouldn't. Were the police called and a police report/missing persons report filed? From what you have said, it sounds like your mom may not be the best person to get information from. She could have been medicated and dreamed giving birth to two babies, or unconscious. I would try looking for facts, police report, deceased baby records at the hospital or coronor's office for that day, hospital records of birth that type of thing.
You may have to accept the fact as horrible as it is that there may never be any clear answers.
2006-07-27 07:22:16 · answer #2 · answered by jodi M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not lame to ask...I am a twin (identical) and I have a set of twins (boy and girl) and can only guess how hard this is for you.
Your best bet is to hire a good private detective. Where are you now? Where is your father?
It can be expensive but doesn't have to be. Sometimes you can hire a cop to do it on their free time.... I could try to help if you want.
2006-07-22 08:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by mymadsky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private detective-the amount of searching that will need to go on probably requires someone with experience.
2006-07-22 08:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear your story. having a daughter of my own, my stomach is in knots just at the thought of losing a child :( i would honestly call Montel Williams Show (i know it sounds lame) but i would because he can afford to hire the best help you can get... if not him then Ms. Oprah Winfrey... sorry again.
2006-07-28 22:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋