Some women are virtually hysterical if they catch their bf looking at the porno books. I'm not really interested in "Cuz the preacher said it was bad" as much as actual analysis.
Surely, they don't think that the boyfriend is going to break off the relationship so he can take his magazine out to dinner and a movie instead...
This is a curiousity! Please help me with your sage advice.
2006-07-22 08:08:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's simply a matter of respect. Seeing other's naked is a personal morality issue to everyone. Some people think it's fine while other's think it's disrespectful to view someone else naked when you are in a relationship. The idea that my partner (in a genuinely monogamous (sp) relationship) is lustfully looking at another woman instead of or in addition to me is completely disrespectful to me. I made sure that people I was in a relationship with knew all that before we got too serious because it's actually that important to me. But I understand that other's do not hold the same value and that is ok too. Hope this helps. It's just my view. Good luck
2006-07-22 08:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by victory is mine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to agree with the guy. It's all about insecurity. I would feel like he's looking at someone else. Walking in on him looking at porn, I would react different if we were doing it together. If it's done together that's just adding to the relationship. A girl just doesn't want get the idea in her head that she's not enough or that he wants something more.
2006-07-22 15:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by jadelily78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's an insecurity issue. Let's face it most women do not look like the girls in those magazines and if they see their guys getting horny from looking at some hot woman in a book I guess it makes them feel as though they are not sexy enough to arouse their guy.
That, in turn, probably leads to jealousy and trust issues too.
2006-07-22 17:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by cazzi_g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are insecure, and when you look at the women's bodies in porn they worry you are making comparisons. Or they worry that they arent satisfying you sexually, so they get defensive. I am a woman and I enjoy looking at porn with my hubby, it makes for some great sex! But it took me a long time to get there, as i am the queen of insecurity. Not to worry not all women freak out about it.
2006-07-22 15:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by subbie4gb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for all women but I do know that I dont mind my hubby looking at porn, because usually I am right there with him watching it or looking at it in a magazine, I actually think its a good idea only for married couples to look at it and get ideas to spice up thier sex life.
2006-07-22 15:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a married woman and I have no idea. I know that my husband occasionally looks at porn and even goes to strip clubs. I have been to ladies night, it is just good fun.
2006-07-22 15:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by PLDFK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great image but it more than likely comes down to insecurity. Though i'd much rather something harmless like that than the alternative, as most women if pushed would probably agree.
2006-07-22 16:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by corinna g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ladies do that because they think that their relationship is going downhill if their bf/husband has to resort to porn.
2006-07-22 15:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by ...♥melissa♥... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a guy but i know why... its because your showing intrest in a woman besides them in a sexual way. even if you dont know the person or never will they still feel your not showing enough intrest in them
2006-07-22 15:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Drew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋