im 13 and im trying to get pregnant?

Question

ok my fiancee is 18 and we are going to get married when i get my parents to sign for the marriage so any way i want to know can i get pregant by me having past stds but they got cured in 6 months and i want to know did it effect my insides..

please no too young anwsers please or call your doctor anwsers and no disrespectful ones also

Answer 1

You know, there are a lot of people who answer questions here on Yahoo Answers who are self proclaimed atheist. They do not believe in any God what so ever. I can personally testify today that there is! According to this and your other questions, you have had numerous Sexually transmitted diseases, at the ripe old age of 13! Just 3 days ago you said you currently have pelvic inflammatory disease. This is often how God works. He knows you are not ready to have a child. He knows you can't take care of yourself. He is sending these diseases to you as a warning, before something more serious happens. Fine, if you won't listen to the 45+ answers telling you not to do it...but try telling God to butt out, and see what happens. You have just as much chance to contract HIV/AIDS as you do to become pregnant.

Black Females ages 13-24 are the fasted gowning HIV positive race/gender in the WORLD. There is 24% chance you already have HIV and don't even know it...(or maybe you do, and that's why you want a child so badly).

Answer 2

I don't know what kind of parents would go and let their 13 year old CHILD get married. If you think life's going to be all peachy and happily ever after just because you've got your "prince", think again.

Marriage and children are totally worth it, but they are a constant work in progress. If you and this guy love each other, why not wait untill you are at least 16-18 before getting married? I'm married and I know how things can be. If its hard for a 30 year old woman, why would it be any easier for a 13 year old? If you are smart, you'd stay in school, graduate and then think about marriage, b/c this is the only life you will ever have. Don't throw it away.

Wishing you all sorts of luck, because you are going to need it in the worse kind of way.

Answer 3

But you are too young. You can have a great life ahead of you. I am sure you want to have goals and aspirations. Please, don't mess up your life. No matter how much you love your fiancee, you are a child and you are NOT ready to have a baby or be married. I feel sorry for you, thinking you are grown, thinking that you are an adult and ready to take on adult things. If you follow through with this, you are going to regret it for the rest of your life. You can go ahead and have sex, and have a baby, but you just remember that you aren't given a second chance. This is the real world and you are just about to ruin your life. I know that I sound like some f****** psychologist or a parent. Guess what.... I am 13, and my little sister DIED because of her STUPID mistake to get pregnant. You need to think.

Answer 4

I know that you didn't want this response but you're going to get it.

You're 13 and you want to get pregnant? That's WAY too young. You can't even get a job yet. Then on top of it you've already had an STD??? That's horrible and your parents need to be locked up for allowing you to date an 18 year old and if they allow you to get married and have a baby, then they need to be shot. What's wrong with the world today? You should be thinking about sports, education and what movie star you have the biggest crush on, NOT getting married and having a baby.

Answer 5

Well this is a big mistake but this is your life. Why have you had STD's before anyway. Were you not smart enough to use protection, but anyway no STD's will not stop you from having a baby. Just make sure when you get pregnant you don't have an STD because if you do it can make you baby retarded or have some deformity. So you might want to get check out before you decide to get pregnant and get checked out after you become pregnant. Make sure your fiancee doesn't have anything either just to be on the safe side, and if he does and you didn't give it to him than I hope your smart enought to know what that means.

Answer 6

13?? My gram was 13 when she got married and he was 18 or 19. She only did it to get out of the house. She ended up having his 8 kids to help with stuff. She was scared of him later on and wanted to leave but there was no where for her to go with 8 kids. She didn't live a very good life style with him since there was such an age difference and whatnot. But I'm sure if she could she would have changed her mind about the choice to marry young. You should think about your future and how long this marriage might last....right now you need to be thinking about what's best for you.

Answer 7

Please just consider this....when you are 18 and want to celebrate being a young woman with a future ahead of you ..... you will be sending your son/daughter off to primary school instead!
I have a daughter who is 13 and I would not allow her to have ANY boyfriend let alone an 18 yr old (by the way do you want him to go to jail? because he is breaking the law)
I feel really sad for you that your innnocence has been taken away at such a young age, why don't you just think more about this, young girls who want babies do so because there is something else missing in their life, obviously your parents don't care (if they did they would not allow this) you are lacking love and think a baby will give you the love you want but I can tell you it won't.
Good luck anyway ...think before you act...

Answer 8

First of all you're just a baby and what the hell are you thinking?where are you're parents?Let me tell you something any guy that what's a 13 year old is sick and if he gets you all he wants to do is have sex and he's going to leave you,you need to put marriage out of your vocabulary.Your parents are to be ashamed of themselves and your boyfriend need to be placed in jail.Come on,you're only 13 you've already experienced the life of having STD's and that's not cute on a baby you need to have school on your mind at this time and having respect because when you get older all the guys are going to take advantage of you and lose all respect so you need to think twice about getting marry and pregnant.

Answer 9

Your thirteen years old ur going out with a 18 year old and ur trying to get pregnant how is anyone going to aswer that. Its obviously going to be ur too young!!!! I am a teen mum and its not as easy as it looks I get so fustrated a some points, I wanna go out and have fun be spontanious and have a laugh without having to think about the consequences about a child if I do so. You may be thinking to your self well I wont be like that or all the rubbish but seriously your telling me your going to drop out of school at 13 and raise a child you have no education pretty much. You need to have a serious serious think about this and you may think that this guy is going to stick by a 13 year girl while she is having a baby.......think again babys can do weird things to guys and that what mine did to me now im a teen single mum with barely any education. You have no idea what your gettin your self into. Im not saying its all bad and I would change having my son for the world. I guess im not one to say dont do it all I can say is think hard cause you neve know whats going to happen.

And if you do have this kid. good luck to you. You'll need it!!!!

Answer 10

Sorry but you are a bit young for : 1.getting married to an 18 yr old, 2. trying to get pregnant, 3. to have had past STD's.Where have your parents been in your life when you needed attention? I feel very sad for you. Other than that; check with your doctor/clinic to see about the effects of your past problems.