I danced with her and she looked to her mates(girls) and smiled towards them. The next day i texted her and asked her whether she enjoyed the prom night or not. I also said that she danced good. She texted back to me saying that i danced good and was wearing a nice suit. But now i wanna link her up in these two or three days. How should i ask her for linking up through phone. I mean what should i say to her on the phone. Please someone give me a good advice.
2006-07-22 07:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by DON 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't listen to these goofs.
If you are texting each other. Now is a good time to stop.
Text her one more time and ask her if it is ok to call her.
If she gives you her phone number, call her asap.
Don't make her wait.
When you do call her and she answers, ask if this is a good time for her to talk. [Mom might be near by.]
Keep the conversation short. First time on the phone is very difficult.
Think of a unique place to go for a bite to eat before you call her. Stay away from McD's and Burger King. Someplace where you can talk without kids screaming but someplace you can afford. But, make sure she likes the type of food.
Ask her if she wants you to meet her at her house or at the restaurant.
She may feel more comfortable meeting you there the first time.
When you do hook up...talk about her. Ask questions about her.
Make her feel important to you. Find out her likes and dislikes so you have something to communicate with her about and so you can make plans for a fun next date. Remember...don't talk alot about yourself. Show interest in her.
Be honest with her.
If you don't pay your cell phone bill and folks do...say...I have limited time on my phone cuz my folks pay for it. Then she will understand if you text her instead of calling because you have a text package. If you don't have a car and make plans for a next day...tell her 'we will be taking public transportation...is that okay?" If she likes you...she won't care and will say 'sure'. Don't use 'Dad's' car and pretend it's yours.
But try and keep it person-to-person. Emails, texting....cool for friends but someone you want to get close and personal with...person-to-person is best.
Then later....try to stay away from texting. Remember, to treat her like a Lady.
Don't try and kiss her...you will scare her away. Don't tell her anything mushy...like 'i love you....you are beautiful...etc.' You will be moving too fast and might scare her away. Make it like you are taking a 'friend' out and then go from there. Be a gentleman as they are rare and hard to find.
Good luck, Sweetie. Sound like love happenin' here.
2006-07-22 08:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of messing with the phone....why dont you just ask her to meet you for a bite to eat....trust me....girls are a lot more fun in person then on the phone.
2006-07-22 08:00:30 · answer #2 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text hurr sayin u wanna talk 2 hurr in private.then when yall r alone.first start off by tellin hurr u love hurr very much.n give hurr a peck on the lips.then tell hurr shes the sweetest most beautiful person u have ever met. and then ask hurr out to eat. then when ur driving hurr home thats when u tell hurr wut u wanna do.
2006-07-22 08:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by nyja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God! No text messaging? No e-mail? You mean we have to...*gasp*.."talk"!??
You want to "link up" but you don't know how to ask verbally?
Son....you ever talk to a female before you had to give her a credit card number?
2006-07-22 08:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayde text her and say hey i wanted to to tell you something i like and i wish to be your boyfriend i hope it goes good for you ok wish you luck
2006-07-22 08:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she prob. thinks you're childish, you can't even call her??? Only text messaging, r u serious? What a lame!!!
2006-07-22 08:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes hot
2006-07-22 08:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by Skate™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋