ive got this mate right! we've been best mates for years and we're both perfectly comftable with our sexuality! (i'm bisexual and she reckons she's perfectly straight)
anyway... i slept at hers the other night and fell asleep on the floor. about 3:00am i woke up in bed next to her and fell back asleep. i woke up, halfasleep, at about 4:30 and i found her feeling my breasts and rubbing her fingers up and down my vagina!!!
what makes it worse is that i split up with my boyfriend on the same day and i was really upset!!
i went to hers and i was shattered and fell asleep then that happened!
although we're not going out (me and my boyfriend) we agreed to be best friends. i told him what happened but i dont want her to know that i told him but he wants to be there when i ask her about it. but i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!
what should i do?
what should i say to her?
what should i say to him?
i need help!!
2006-07-22 07:30:34 · 13 answers · asked by im not fab, im great 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well firstly if you want to keep a secret ......don't tell anyone.
It probably wasn't a good idea telling your ex if you don't want your mate to know that you told him ? !?!?!
Do you feel bad about it or did you enjoy it. if your bi then i guess you enjoyed it. She was probably confused and wanted to try " the other side" Talk to her about it but don't be to harsh. No harm done is there. she only touched you up a bit. not like full sex.
ask her if she liked it . You'll know what to say when the time comes.
2006-07-22 08:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep him out of this...my guess is he will get a kick out of it, as this is personal heavy stuff. Ask her what happened, and if you dont get a straight answer from her, dont sleep over again, unless you do want more of the same from her....have a long girly chat and try to put this behind you, but on no account involve anyone else in this, or everyone will know about it.
2006-07-22 09:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU MADE THE WORST MISTAKE BY TELLING UR EX ABOUT IT, HE HAD NO BUSINESS KNOWING WHAT HAPPENED.
AND IF YOU SAY U R BISEXUAL, YOU SCHOULD BE ABLE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENED THAT NIGHT. I DONT THINK THERE IS A NEED TO TURN IT INTO A BIG CONVERSATION. YOU CAN JUST BRING IT UP, AND SEE WHAT SHE SAYS.
IF U BOTH LIKE EACH OTHER, THAN SPEND MORE NIGHTS WITH HER, EXPLORE UR SEXUALITY AND HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-22 07:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by jiomylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her and dont involve anyone in issues like that cos you can never tell they can give you very bad advice. Do what your heart says. Its only a question, what do you need your ex therefore?.....for back up incase she beats you up?...hell no!, you know she wont do that.
2006-07-22 09:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to ask your friend what her intentions really are(is she really straight)and her reasons for picking a time when your at lowest.it`s up too you if you want your ex too be there if you dont then tell him if you want the surpport or not.this could be somthing you need to do by your self
2006-07-22 07:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him out of it...talk it over with your mate...tell her how you feel and felt. The BF does not need to be involved, because it would embarrass the girl and maybe you...
2006-07-22 07:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a difficult she shouldnt have touched u unless u wanted her to. ask her what happened and why she did it and if shes confused about her feelings
2006-07-22 07:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wise up.Forget it ever happened and tell your boyfriend you were only teasing him !
2006-07-22 07:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by any 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what was going on yes, it really is the only way.
2006-07-22 07:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by ross h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are bi they just don't want everybody to know. she just see the right time for her to act. be strate with her dont be holding back or you might lose your friend to embarrassment
2006-07-22 07:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by ronnstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋