I dont think i have ever had an orgasm. what do they feel like, or what is suppose to happen?

Answer 1

sexual climax, is a pleasurable physical, psychological or emotional response to prolonged sexual stimulation. It is often accompanied by a notable physiological reaction, such as ejaculation, blushing or spasm and may be followed by aftershocks.

Orgasm is the conclusion of the plateau phase of the sexual response cycle, shared by males and females alike. During orgasm, both males and females experience quick cycles of muscle contraction in the lower pelvic muscles, which surround both the anus and the primary sexual organs.

As a man ages, it is normal for the amount of ejaculate to diminish, and hence, the length of time the man sustains orgasm also diminishes somewhat. This does not affect the pleasurable feeling of orgasm at all, it merely shortens the duration of it.

Achieving multiple orgasm
Some women can achieve multiple orgasms: a series of orgasms, one after another with possibly increased intensity after the first. The great exertion involved can be blissfully debilitating for quite some time after.

This kind of orgasm would normally involve stimulation of the woman's clitoris rather than the vagina. Some women can do this manually using their fingers taking a pause of two or three seconds between each. When using their hands, women can insert fingers up the vagina, wriggling their fingers to stimulate the G-spot, also the women may also massage the clitoris repeatedly.

A vibrator applied directly to the clitoris can enable women who are not practiced in using their fingertips. A vibrator used this way can be applied almost continuously to bring about orgasms that seem less separated. A battery powered tooth brush that vibrates with an oscillatory rotational motion is preferred by some for whom it is more effective than a vibrator.

Answer 2

I would guess that you are not having an orgasm.

If you had an orgasm – you would know.

There is an uncontrollable, rhythmic (once every .8 seconds) muscle contraction, (not at all like cramps) and a INCREDIBLE amount of pleasure.

If you have only had sex with your boyfriend – don’t feel bad if you have not had an orgasm – many girls are unable to have orgasms regularly from penetration alone. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation, either with a finger a tongue, or a toy.

If you have never tried to pleasure yourself, I DO recommend it – once you have your first orgasm, they become easier to have – your body seems to “learn” how to have them. Experiment with a vibrating “massager” if your own finger does not do the trick.

I would not visit a doctor for this, it sounds completely normal to me, but if you feel you should see the doctor, by all means go – better safe than sorry.

Answer 3

Well I cant agree with everyone else I remember the first time it ever happened to me and HONESTLY it felt like I had to pee while we were doing it and then it happened and the first 10 or so times when it happened it felt like I had the urge to pee but as soon as it happened it didnt feel like that anymore but NOW its intense pleasure so much it takes your breath away type of thing...

Answer 4

it feels good and if you dont know then you havent had 1 yet!
i remember when i first started having sex and nothing happened for years so i was wondering what the hype was about lol! but the first time i had 1 i knew what it was!

Answer 5

It feels like an explosion. It is a very good explosion. You know if you have it. It feels like your brain has a bath in wonderful chemicals.

Answer 6

Bend ova

Answer 7

gurl
the earth is supposed to move u see fireworks and smell flowers...no not really
all I can say is u WILL know when u have one

Answer 8

If you'd had one you would have known. It's like an explosion of pure and intese pleasure.

Answer 9

they are incredible. I didn't have one til he told me and i was like ooh that what it was. Its lncredbible amazing feeling.