i need help. I dont know what to do. I have seen them togather in bed before. there mom dose not care she says its just a natual thing and that there using protection. But is it natual? Is it wrong?Please help im only 13 and dont know what to do.
2006-07-22 07:26:59 · 31 answers · asked by littleblueflower13 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
or atleast she says her mom knows about it
2006-07-22 07:41:17 · update #1
i do not know if the mother knows i hope she dosent but the bro is 16 and sis is 13.
2006-07-22 07:46:10 · update #2
you haven't joined in YET?...............
2006-07-22 07:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Okay, this is incest, statutory rape, molestation and child endangerment all rolled into one.
If the mother is okay with it - she is not a fit parent.
If the older brother is doing this - he is not right in the head same goes for the girl if she is consenting.
SHE COULD GET PREGNANT.
You need to skip other adults and family members and go straight to DCF (Department for Child and Family Services).
You need to help your friend. The DCF will take the children away and question everyone and for a while the lives of this family will be hell, but if everyone gets into therapy and begins living a healthy lifestlye it is worth it.
GO TO DCF - and act fast...these things do not need to be waited on.
You are in my prayers.
2006-07-22 08:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, yes, this is serious and you are right to be concerned. Tell your mother or dad; if your friend is the same age as you, in my opinion someone should make a call (and it can be anonymous) to Children's Protective Services. You will be doing your friend an enormous favor, even if she doesn't see it that way right now. You DON"T have to tell her about reporting this; just keep being her friend...away from her house.
Best wishes and prayers,
aunt cryllie
2006-07-22 07:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty disturbing. How old is she? Is she also 13? I think her parents need to know about this, it is very upsetting. It's called "incest" and no it is not natural. I am about 99% sure her mother must not know about this because I'm sure she wouldn't allow this to go on between her children. If you are worried about getting involved you might want let her mother know anonymously, maybe write her a letter with no return address or something like that.
2006-07-22 07:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's very wrong, and by no means is it ok. Tell your parents. They should so something about it. Talk to her parents. There's a chance she's lying about her mom knowing. It's illegal for her to even have sex and possibly illegal for him too. It's called the age of consent. It depends on what it is in your state but what they're doing is VERY illegal. Get her help as soon as possible. This is not healthy and it doesn't need to continue. Good Luck!
2006-07-22 08:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know how old your friend is, but if she is your age.. she is too young to be doing that. Just let her know of all the STD's and diseases you can get from having sex. Let her know, that if she got pregnant, the baby would have a low chance of surviving and if it did survive, it would have problems. Don't lie to her, just scare her some so she will stop! Their mom is so wrong for letting them do that! It's REALLY wrong! but if you need anything else or want to talk just email me. OK?
2006-07-22 08:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG are you kidding me? Natural? That's absolutely disgusting and should be reported to someone!!! I would love to know what age your friend is. If the mother is accepting her children actually having intercourse together there is something VERY wrong with her!! You are totally right to feel something is wrong and you need to talk to your parents or an adult, this needs to stop and your friend needs help to realize this is wrong. Telling someone is not betraying your friend, its helping them!!!
2006-07-22 07:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by prettyinpink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is wrong! it's NOT a natural thing--it's incest. "Protection" is not the issue here.Although it's your friend, you need to report this. There's all kinds of problems ahead for this family if they continue this way. Makes you kind of wonder--has "Mom" slept with her son? "Mom" needs mental help. How old is brother? Tell someone!!
2006-07-22 07:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by fdrsnail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible mother to know this is going on and not do something about it. You should let a adult know. Often siblings will do this kind of act because they were molested . That may be why the parent will let it go.
2006-07-22 07:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby that is a sin. When family sleep with family. That's disgusting. What is wrong with them. Just tell her to read the bible if that doesn't workl than there is nothing you can do. Now if she gets pregnant than that's her problem because that just messes up the family generation.
2006-07-22 07:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by prettymommie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really avoid your friends house and tell your parents. You DO NOT want to get involved with anything that is going on in that house.
If you cant tell your parents then call the police and they can/will help.
2006-07-22 08:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by tigreria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋