Does it bother you to know that your husband/boyfriend will visit a Strip Club??? Honest question..in my opinion..I Hate it..and NO, I'm not insecure...To me is more about respect......what do u think about it?
2006-07-22 07:15:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm with you, I don't like the idea either. I guess my thinking is that the relationship should be enough, why would he need to go there? What if the woman went to a male strip club? It's kind of a double standard. This can be a sensitive issue with couples it seems. But I understand where you are coming from, and I know it doesn't have anything to do with being insecure, it's just the principle.
2006-07-22 07:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go to strip clubs why can't he. Its a matter of looking without touching. Also realizing that the people on the stage are real people with friends, Significant Others, and parents and not just pieces of meat. Which is hard for most men to do. To facilitate this I could see myself going to a strip club with the men in my life (I have with my guy friends before). It's a fun and educational experience
2006-07-22 14:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by Margarette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only bother me if I actually told him that I don't like him going to strip clubs. Have you asked him not to go? If you have and he is still going he doesn't respect you and shouldn't be worth your time.
2006-07-22 14:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by LadyD1019 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah! Of course I would hate it!It's not that im insecure either nor that i dont trust him.. Just those things dont happen.. If my bf is with me im sorry but i need all of his attention and of course i cant accept being compared to a stripper .. (not that i have something against them but i mean im his gf and i wouldnt like it if he compared me with one because they r just doing their job instead this is my life..) I want him to respect and of course to be the centre of his life like he is to mine..I would never do it so I expect from him the same.. (and i know he wont let me down =P)
2006-07-22 14:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sick. And any man that goes to a strip club has nothing going for his self. He is less than a man and use strippers to boast his ego.
2006-07-22 14:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by winnp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is in a guys nature to do that but if it bothers you (for boyfriend) end it cause there are guys who do not that(although dieing breed) if husband give him a good scolding.....
2006-07-22 14:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Help ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok iam only 13 and even i have to say if my husband did that i would kill him girls giving him lap dancing all day..and u dont know what he could be doing to those girls i think hes cheeting on u no affence
2006-07-22 14:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by andralynn147 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would hate it, its trashy an it shows no respect unless the husband/ boyfriend asks his wife/gurlfriend first an their wife/gurlfriend says its alright...
2006-07-22 14:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Heyyi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would bother me if i didnt trust him but if hes just out with his buddies then it shouldnt really be a big deal
2006-07-22 14:17:39 · answer #9 · answered by sarah p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT GIVE A RAT'S BEHIND IF HE GOES. MY PROBLEM IS IF HE SPENDS TOO MUCH OF OUR MONEY ON THE GIRLS. THEY ARE TRAINED TO DRAIN THEM. DECIDE HOW MUCH HE WILL SPEND AND TELL HIM PEACE BE WITH YOU AND DONT TOUCH THE POLE CUZ, THINK ABOUT IT, HOW MANY TWATS HAVE RUBBED IT DOWN?
2006-07-22 14:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋