I love my parents but i love that girl also ,
i want to marry her but my parents oppose this marriage .
what to do now, obey the parents and break her heart , or marry her and disrespect the love and care of parents..............
pls help, its of my life..........
2006-07-22 07:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by Jack Sully 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your parents are right, you should never marry your sister.
2006-07-22 07:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about ask your parents why they are against the marriage? Sometimes parents see things we don't and can help us not trash our lives by making a stupid decision. At least ask them so you will know why and if they have a good reason that makes sense to you, listen and get someone else. If they are against it only because they don't like where she is from or the color of her hair, that I would say was a bad reason for not doing it and going your way. Communication is the key.
2006-07-22 14:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though choice. Was almost there myself at one time. Talk to your parents and be honest Find out why they really don't want you to marry this girl. Tell them they should be grateful that you are not gay. Explain to them the deep love that you have for her ask them for their loving support. Give it time, they'll come around. Just let them get to know her a little more. Good luck and God Bless you.
2006-07-22 14:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by TCPBCP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you. If your in your teens listen to your parents, if your in your mid twenties and know this girl sufficiently follow your heart but be as gentle & loving w/your parents. Do all you can to make them feel part of your life. To deliberately ignore their concerns would be cruel and you would regret it. Also, be sure your in love...not lust.
2006-07-22 14:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Heidi 4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her marry her. Your parents will get over it. Maybe some day when they get to really know her they may fall in love with her too.
2006-07-22 14:16:05 · answer #5 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off why do they oppose to the marriage?they must have a reason for doing so.and second how old are you?If you're older than 18. then theres nothing you're mom and dad can say.about you marring the woman you love. good luck
2006-07-22 14:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk things over with ur parents mavey they will change ur mind
if that dosent work then u should marry her
if u truly and honestly LOVE her
2006-07-22 14:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by umm........?*!*?*! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever ur heart desires... its not your parents who'll marry her... it's YOU!!!! go for it ... after all it's ur life......ryt?
2006-07-22 14:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by dong ai rui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋