2006-07-22 06:55:51 · 28 answers · asked by playboyleroy2002 1 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
Well if you really love her than you will wait until she is ready.
2006-07-22 07:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Spoiled Brat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her so much then you need to respect her decision. Chances are, it's probably a decision that she made long before you ever came into the picture. Just be happy that you're with her. Some people aren't so fortunate to have a boyfriend or girlfriend.
2006-07-22 14:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Tweety Gurl*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her honestly and sincerely, tell her how you feel amd let her tell you how she feels, and then deal with it...connect with your feminine side! Try to empathise with her, she has morals and she might have been hurt before. If she is a virgin, she is saving it, don't use the you will if you love me thing, or pressure her....some men, and women are out for one thing...I tell my 16 year old dauhter that some men will do or say anything to get in your pants, and before you know it, he will be gone. I tell my 14 year old son the same thing. Not all men are dogs, but then again some women are....
She might be worrying about pregnancy or STDs, a baby is an 18+ year committment. STDs are too, and sex is not worth dying over (even if it is good).
I know if I find out my daughter is pregnant, the father and I will have a one to one with my biker husband and his friends, after I kick his a**, and hers.
2006-07-22 14:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by scooter_trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, give her space, be respectful of her feelings, and wait until she's ready. Never, ever pressure her. Sex and pressure do not mix. If you go down that road, you're asking for an end to the relationship, or at best a really, really bad relationship.
2006-07-22 14:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Happy,
She is saving herself for her HUSBAND, future down the line. Nothing wrong with that. She may be called a cold fish, or frigid but she won't be called an easy lay, slut , whore, and all the rest of the crude slurs that comes from boys and girls alike.
I for 1 am proud of her. You should be too.
2006-07-22 14:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by spiritwalker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is using sex as a controlling factor....knowing you want it but keeping her legs closed. Women like that who use lack of sex to control me get dumped right away no questions asked. Not because im not having sex, but because she is using it to control me. Women who say they don’t want sex are LIARS because they will go find it somewhere else, and just say they are not ready.
2006-07-22 14:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by WHO_WHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you?if your young(16) than thats normal. but if your older. how long have you been goping out for?all u have to do is give her time and just slowly get into it and make a very romatic mood(dont forget the candels)and just do some foreplay and if you get turned down, try 2 days from then.
2006-07-22 13:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that your girlfriend doesn't just easily fall into bed with youi or anyone else. Why? For one, once you go there you can't undo it. Secondly, that kind of stuff goes with a permanent commitment. Are you ready for that?
2006-07-22 14:26:38 · answer #8 · answered by doodlebug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and/or marry her.
Chances are a wise woman such as one who doesn't give herself away freely wouldn't marry a guy with the screen-name Playboy Leroy - anyway!
On second thought - find yourself a stupid girl who will let you use her and leave the smart girl alone. She deserves better!
2006-07-22 14:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by LL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be respectful of her wishes. not all relationships are about sex. and believe it or not you will survive without it. other than that i would talk to her about it and come to some understanding about why she doesn't to and put her wants above your own because if you keep trying to force her your relationship wont last. but later she will love you for totally being understanding and listening to her.
2006-07-22 14:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by elf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If having sex with her is that important get another girlfriend.
2006-07-22 14:03:59 · answer #11 · answered by Greg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋