Why do Black Women behave like desperate savages towards African American guys who date White Women?

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Why do Black Women behave like desperate savages towards tall, nice looking African American guys who have good jobs and date White Women? --- Very often I’m viciously attacked and harassed - in many different ways - by Black Women when I’m not at all bothering them. My friends, Black Women and Men, constantly tell me that Black Women behave like this towards me because I’m a tall, good looking guy with a good job and they are trying to get my attention, and the straight black guys like me date White or Asian women. Honestly, I don’t think that’s an excuse to be harassed. No other women in any other culture behaves like that. Even Black Women who are with White Men will go out of their way to get my attention, embarrassing themselves as well as the White Guys they are with, to the point where many of these poor, innocent White Guys have often apologized to me for their Black Woman friend’s behavior. I understand that Black Women have issues, but why do they have to be so extreme, and why can’t they see how extreme they are from other women? …And attacking the credibility of our White girlfriends does not make them look any better, but instead, more ignorant and jealous in the eyes of other cultures of women. My friends and I have never dated a poor, unattractive or uneducated White or Asian Woman, so when these White and Asian Women hear Black Women make these comments, they see how pitiful and desperate Black Women are.

Note: Why do Black Women constantly embarrass themselves by trying to get the attention of African American guys such as myself as I have described… and alert us that they are with a White guy? White Men are aware that Black Men – especially the ones such as myself as I have described………. - are not jealous of them, like Black Women are jealous of White Women. Guys, (Black, White, etc…) know this – we know this! Actually, White and other cultures of men tend to admire African American guys like myself who are not the typical stereotype and see us as an intelligent rare person and often look forward to, and enjoy our company. To other cultures, these type of Black Women look like some kind of desperate social refugees, rejected by the best African American men, …because other cultures know why the most admired African American men reject Black Women and date White and Asian women, they are not stupid.

I also find it interesting that the ones who say that they don’t care about Black Men dating White Women won’t dare get involved and stop the ones who attack us but instead subtly support and root for them. It’s like if someone falls in a lake and you don’t throw them a life jacket, it show’s how you sincerely feel about their situation. Their just hiding behind their pride.

Answer 1

Racism

Answer 2

i think it's something along the lines of your mom is black so you should find a nice black woman like her. least that's what I've heard. sounds kind of incestuous but whatever. thnik they're just really jealous. all of us are told to marry within our race for the most part to continue the species sort of thing? black women are always complainng that there aren't any good black men around and when there are, they hook up with a white or asian broad. guess they feel kind of left out or not AS attractive as the other girls. who knows, shouldn't be anybodys business what inkwell you dip your pen into.

Answer 3

Racism, or jealousy because you're better more accomplished then them.

Answer 4

I don't, I don't look at skin color, I look at how the guy(girl in your case) treats me. I'd rather be with a white man, or Mexican man who treats me like a queen than a black man who treats me like crap.
I usually tend to have feelings for white men and I don't know why and all my black friends are like, "Are you black?" But just because I don't care about the color of my man doesn't mean I'm not African American anymore. I've learned that black people can be just as prejudice as white people.

Answer 5

Wanna bet? I have dated while men and the white women look at me as though I was crazy, but why should you care what they act like?

Answer 6

You know what, I'm a black female and I completely understand where you're coming from. I think it is ridiculous that African American women act this way towards black men who decides to date other races. I swear this particular subject has always bothered me to no end. I've ALWAYS had interest in other races and HAVE dated whites and Asians and dont plan to stop either.

I believe these black women act this way because of complete ignorance and lack of understanding. The worst part is, they DONT want to understand no matter how much explaining you do. Even men do thesame thing too but are more discreet about it. One came up to me and said, "why are you dating that cheese lookn N***a. He doesnt even have any color on him!" I just had to laugh...not because what he said was funny (my left eye was practically twitching) but because i couldnt believe how much of an idiot the man was and I'd never been so ashamed of my race. But anyways, my msg to you is, always do what you do. You're learning. They'll always remain stupid.

And thats a damn shame on their part.

Answer 7

Why should somebody pretend to be somebody they're not.

Answer 8

nonsense what are you on me ,me, me,me,me,me you shouldn't make a distinction between race,that's racist,women are woman men are men please don't generalise it makes you sound ignorant,respect

Answer 9

Actually, by being black, you are one of them. They will be all over you for life no matter what job you have.

Black stays with black and white stays with white. Even tho things have changed and it is acceptable to the public eye, It is socially unacceptable to our friends.
Make sense?

Answer 10

wow u write a lot!!!!! i dont by the way