me and my fiance were trying for so long and i was 3 months when this recently happened! :( this month and im devistated! i need to know this has happened to other people and how you've coped with it!??
2006-07-22 06:47:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
please im so depressed i know i can have other kids but my doc told me to wait two cycles before trying again and i also wana know since they did an d&c to u if youve had 1 was it easier for u to get pregnant sice they did the d&c (cuz they open your cervix and uttarus?
2006-07-22 06:52:02 · update #1
My husband and I had a blithed ovum and we also felt terrible about it. There is really nothing that helped us but time. We did happen to get pregnant 3 months later which was very exciting but very scarey since we didn't want it to happen again. We now have a 15 week old son which we adore and love. Time helps and when the time is right it will happen and you will be happy again. Just don't blame yourself you did nothing wrong!
2006-07-22 06:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Autumn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I never had a miscarriage but I did loose my Daughter at the age of 2 months it was very hard caring her the whole time being born healthy and only having her for 2 months she was born Nov 17 and died Jan 20 so the next 5 to 6 years Holiday were not a happy time but it has been 17 years now. I have a daughter that will be 16 next month and a son that is 14. You will be OK you will have happy and healthy kids it just takes time. Yes the pain will go away and God will help you because he is with you and I will pray for you.
2006-07-22 14:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Carol W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sweetie - it is very hard to cope with. I fortunately was blessed with a child a few years later. The best way to heal is of thoughts for the future. You sound like you have a loving partner and that you will work on having a family again. Discuss with your doctor possible known reasons that may have caused this to take precautions for when you try again.
I will pray for your peace of mind. Remember that God does things for a reason only known to Him. It is usually because He has bigger and better plans for you. He also does not give you anything you can't handle. So talk to God for strength and tell Him your are ready for whatever He gives you next.
2006-07-22 13:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by COOKIE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, I've had a miscarriage, it's been over two years, i was upset because my husband and i really wanted the baby, i was only about 1 1/2 months along though. but now we have a beautiful 8 month old girl. she's everything to us. I've had people tell me that it may have happened because something was wrong with the baby. i look at it as, if it didn't happen we wouldn't have this cute, funny, happy little sweetheart. i hope i helped.
2006-07-22 13:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by kevinsk_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A miscarriage is a terrible thing. I had one 12 yrs ago, and had a hard time accepting it, but, then, I got pregant with my daughter who is 11, just 10 months after I miscarried. So, I look at it like, if I hadn't have had that miscarriage, I wouldn't have my baby girl!! Time heals all wounds, and I'll say a little prayer for you. You will get pregnant again...and soon.
2006-07-22 13:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by southgadixiechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same thing happened to me. It caused me and my husband to be closer than ever. We tried a year later and I have my own bundle of joy. Also, we adopted a child. There are support group at some local hospitals try those or you can speak to a doctor. It takes time and it is not your fault so dont blame yourself. god has a way of making things happen. i see that my lose was a sign that the baby was sick and now in heaven with god
2006-07-22 13:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage it was really hard my fiance was out of town so I went through it myself. But I got over it,I still think about it, But now I have a wonderful little boy
2006-07-22 13:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Rondi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a miscarriage in May 2005 and I know exactly how you feel. I soon after that became pregnant again and just had my son June 14th. Email me if you just need to talk.
2006-07-22 13:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by n/a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i never had a misscarriage , but i know how u must be feeling right now , just keeping praying and talking to god he will help u . and i will pray for u
2006-07-22 14:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋