today i got a call from my ex boyfrind saying that he dont want to know nothing about me and not to look for him im 15 and he 21 and i believe im pregnant and i dont know what to do my period been late for 11 days can somebody help me or give an advice pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee
2006-07-22 06:42:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's time to talk to your parents. Please don't look for advice on Yahoo! Answers for a question as serious as this.
2006-07-22 06:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take and test. If you are pregnant tell him because he is the father, but it is up to him if he wants to be involved. Don't let this worry you too much, then tell your parents, because you need to have prenatal care ASAP for the health of your child. If you decide otherwise not to have this child it is a decision you have to make not anyone elses. Good Luck. If you need to just talk email me I became a mother at the age of 15 also and finished school and got married and I am very happy. So I know exactly how you feel.
2006-07-22 06:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by n/a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before that you have to do another test to reconfirm. If negative, shun him & pls don't repeat the same mistake. But if vice versa talk to your parents then. It's a very hard task, I know but it's better now than later. At least they know what to do probably lodge a report. You're underage, my dear. This is a serious matter. You should then discuss with your gynae. I'm sure they will help you. Sorry once again to hear 'bout your problem. I hope everything will be fine soon. Take care.
2006-07-22 07:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really you shouldn't have been with a 21 year old and your just 15 in the first place. Well honestly if you are pregnant and he is the father than there is a chance he will say its not his. I'm not trying to put you down but you said he said he don't want anything to do with you, but then again he might not say that it's not his.
2006-07-22 06:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with your parents. Tell them what happened. Especially if your test came back positive, because you have alot of hard decisions to make and your parents and a doctor can really inform you so you can make the right decision for yourself. As for this guy...sleeping w/ a 15 year old is called statutory rape. If your pregnant he'd better have a good job because he needs to start paying up and taking responsibility for his actions. He can't just say don't look for me and expect it to be over. Good luck to you!
2006-07-22 06:49:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what he did is called statutory rape! you need to speak to your parents I know it's scary but I just had to the same thing, and it's surprising how understanding they can be. There are also pregnancy help lines, and centers where you can get advice and counseling. Remember no matter your age is your body, and what you do with it in the end is your choice.
2006-07-22 07:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents so they can lecture you, get a test taken and seek prenatal care.
You had no business sleeping with a 21 year old man...you are just a child anyway...he can go to jail for child molestation.
Looks like you will be taking care of that baby on your own and you can get the state to get him for child support as well as sleeping with a minor.
2006-07-22 07:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off a 21 year old has no business being with a 15 year old, must less having sex with her. Talk to your mom, buy a pregnancy test and make decisions about it.
2006-07-22 06:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the others you need to get a pregnancy test. Then talk to your parents. He used you use better judgement next time. He needs to be put in jail if you are pregnant that will make him think long and hard about having sex with a kid next time...
2006-07-22 06:48:35 · answer #9 · answered by *bossy* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what is best for the baby it needs a mom and a dad git him to sign adoption papers and show your kid how much you love it by giving it a 2 parent home
if he wont sign the paperwork file statutory rape charges any dude 21 who does a 15 year old is bad news
2006-07-22 06:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by mobile auto repair (mr fix it) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright you need to tell your parents and if you are pregnant and he wont help you send his *** to jail for statutory rape I bet that will teach his butt not to do this bs to minors. I am sorry but you should have never been with him in the first place. You have a long road ahead of you and I wish you luck!
2006-07-22 06:53:01 · answer #11 · answered by Mommy2Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋