my ex boyfriend n i went out 4 9 months! we were REALLY tight, like best friends, and we did everything together. but then we broke up, but stayed friends, and it's been like 7 months now, and he's got a new gf, that cheats on him ALL the time and treats him like crap!! but he says he loves her but also loves me. i would give the world to get him back! hes the only guy i ever truely loved, and im the only girl he says hes ever truely loved. he lost his V with me also. how do i get him back? can u guys plz help!! his gf is so mean 2 him, she'll go n sit on other guys' laps RIGHT in front of him!! and she's nutten but trouble 4 him. no1 in his family rly even likes her also, either do his friends! but every thing i say 2 him, he goes off and tells her no matter what it is! he got in a lil cram the other day n had 2 go away and b4 he left, he called her 2 tell her he loves her and such, well she didnt even call him the next day 2 c if he was aight, she didnt even no he was gone!!
2006-07-22 06:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by hotpeper13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you still have feelings for him, but before you do make sure he can see the faults in his current girlfriend. If its true you are the only person he has ever truely loved then he should have no problem in getting back together with you.
2006-07-22 06:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the only guy you ever truly loved because you haven't really lived yet. Step back from the whole picture, if he truly loves you he'd already be with you. If you still want him give him space, let him see his world without you in it. Good luck. You should probably start dating other people it would be the healthiest move.
2006-07-22 07:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THis is a tough one, why did you guys break up in the first place?
He must have a low self esteem to put up with this other girl, but I believe you are helping him continue his behavior by wanting him back even though he is with someone else. Maybe you just need to act like it is over between the two of you, quit giving him support when he is not with her. Maybe it's the way she gives him a *******, guys are stupid about stuff like that.
2006-07-22 06:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hi : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋