okay i have sorta slanted eyes. i hate them . alot of guys at my school me and i am really getting tired of it. i hate how they always pick on me for that when (nothing against fat people) they are fat and i never pick on them cuz of that. i dont know what to do. yea i am sorta the revenge kinda girl and if they dont stop that mite happen and i dont want it to. what can i do
2006-07-22 05:51:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
throw toilet water in there faces...
2006-07-22 05:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. Most kids pick on other kids in the hope that everyone else's attention will be focused on the other kids flaws, and not their own.
Make it clear that you think your eyes are nothing to ashamed about - don't look embarrassed or upset when they make fun of you, it just makes it better for them. If you don't react like they expect you to, it takes the fun out of it for them.
In fact if they do it, you could probably just say something like "I forgive you for taking out your own insecurities on me." And then walk away and ignore them even if they continue shouting out stupid stuff. They'll be baffled, and will likely leave you alone after that, because nobody likes to be confused. The less you react to their bullying, the more likely it is that they leave you alone.
Also forgive them. You don't have to make them your best friends, but don't hate them also. Nobody will suffer more than you when hate happens. All that negative energy will just rob you of the focus you need to do all the great stuff in your life.
Anyway, I think it was Oscar Wilde who said, "Always forgive your enemies. Nothing else annoys them quite as much."
2006-07-22 13:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by marchcalf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the people (or kids) at your school have nothing better to do than to pick on people. It's like a hobby or something. Kids at my kids school is always picking on someone. I have told my kids "You don't want to act like that, do you? Just because someone picks on you, that does'nt give you the right to act like they do" They just ignore the person. Good luck
2006-07-22 12:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill them with kindness, and they may actually realize what a great person you are. if that doesn't work, pretending like they don't even exist is a good idea. See you have to believe that these people who make fun of you are not even worth your time or thought, so forget about it. and good luck!
2006-07-22 12:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by CoutureCutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about them, be nice. be to others as you want to be treated, hope it rubs off. and continue not picking on others....did you ever think that maybe they are jealous because you dont??? Be the bigger person
2006-07-22 12:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them,forgive and forget about them,revenge if they dont want to stop
2006-07-22 12:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by bambil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
embarrass them for picking on you
2006-07-22 12:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by finkksta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile sweetly at them, don't let them see you are affected by their stupidity, because that's what they are, stupid.
2006-07-22 12:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice to them. they wont be able to handle that
2006-07-22 12:53:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋