my boyfriend doesnt like my friends. wat to do?

Question

my boyfriend doesnt like my friends. i have told 1 million times tht my friends r imp to me but not more than him. still he always gets red when i talk abt them. nowadays my friends r busy wit thier lives so currently v arent in touch. i was missing them. i shared my lonelyness with him. he suddenly said he have some work and went off. now i feel more lonely and sad. i never made him feel any1 in this world is more imp to me than him still he sulks like this. doesnt tell me wats in his mind. how to console him? how do i handle this?

Answer 1

Hold on there's answers your can still be happy.

What has happen is he has not got security with himself thinking he will lose you [ jealous ] - [ worried ].
So now you have to convince him your happy with him and you also need friends and this is how.

Invite your friends over have a cook out now start with a couple that's settled down as you two are. Take this slow when the company comes over explain to them before hand your plan !!!

Whats been going on and you wish to try to fix this love of a relationship you have together.
Tell them when they come over you will be doing alot of comforting toward him to make him fill no one is trying to take you away from him.

Good Friends understand and can play this role because once the ice has broken then sets in the comfort zone.

Get your friend to have her male friend to ask him to exit from you and the female like going toward the car ...talking sports things like that what ever interest him.
He will work his way back to you fast at first then after a couple of cook outs are what ever you guys plan sooner are later he will spend more time with male friend dicussing , fishing, hunting, nascar, ...because the comfort zone is lowered he starts to trust in them because he sees your not going anywhere.

After they leave each time tell him thanks hugs, kisses, let him know he made you happy...and then he feels good.

Its like playing a game.

When I was raising my kid I remember how I would trick her into doing what I ask by acting as if I wanted them to do something else and she would do oppisite. This was what I wanted she just thought it was'nt.
Example don't go in the house and she would... see its right in front of you the answers but you have to play the game...Until the comfort zone is gone.

Had an antique store people would not buy an item for $40.00 so the next week I put it on the half price table marked the price up to $80.00 and somone would buy it and I got what I wanted $40.00.

Because they ( what ) though they where getting what they whated when really I was ( mine games ) works try it.

Well that was long winded.
I hope you undersatnd work things into your favor

Answer 2

Dump him, your friends were there first, boyfriends come and go but friends stay, especially if they are true friends, he seems like he is controlling and doesn't seem to care about you having any outside relationships outside of him and he showed no concern for your feelings or thoughts when you told him you were lonely, a real boyfriend would of showed some concern and would allow you to have friends and encourage you to have outside interests and activities outside of the relationship...

Answer 3

change your boyfriend!!!!! you have friends before you have him, and if your friends dont represent any treat for him, you know like one of those is likes you or whatever, and they are really good friends, keeping a boyfriend in that condition is not worth it.

Answer 4

Dump him. He is a controlling guy.