hi, my girlfriend has recently been saying stuff to me like i need space and i don't wanna see u 24/7, and that i'm too serious. guess i am cuz i love her. help.what's going on?
2006-07-22 05:30:32 · 21 answers · asked by Leon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She means that Dont follow her wherever she goes 24/7, (anybody will get irritated by that), and that you let her do whatever she wants...be a bit relaxed, and some humor...thats what she's trying to tell.
2006-07-22 05:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I need more space" means either...
1. You're stiffling her by being too clingy, calling her too much, wanting to hang out all the time, etc. Stop doing this NOW if you want her to remain your girlfriend. You need to have a life outside of your girlfriend. Cut back to calling her once, maybe twice, a week. The idea is to have HER calling YOU. In this first instance, you still have a chance, however slim.
2. Worse, and more likely, it means that she needs some space permenantly. You probably have already lost her by being too clingy and not having a life outside of her.
Odds are probably 80-90% that she will be breaking up with you soon. If so, be sure to learn your lesson here: women want a man who's a CHALLENGE. If she KNOWS she has you, she won't want you--you must keep her guessing. I know, I know...it doesn't make sense, but this is how most women's hearts work. Too much attention too soon will always drive a woman off. She has to know that you have a life outside of the time you spend with her.
2006-07-22 12:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by twiceborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend says she needs some space, it doesn't necessarily mean it's over. It may mean she wants to explore other options to see if your what she really wants, or she may just think your too clingy. Give her the space. If she comes back then she really care/loves you. If she don't come back, then move on she may have found something better or just not cared enough to come back. Just give her space and wait and see what happens. I hope everything works out for you. Good-Luck.
2006-07-22 12:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Babie_Girl_05-23-05_Taken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey that doesn't mean she doesn't care for you it's just that when guys move to fast girls say things like that if you want to kiss her but she doesn't want to kiss you don't get mad she just needs to think some things over before she starts having sex everyday and making out with you she's probably just thinks that something will go wrong and she will end up with a baby just give her some time.
2006-07-22 12:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by penny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs some space. Some times you need a moment to just be by yourself. If you are around each other all the time you will get so sick of each other and the relationship will definitely end. Let her breathe.
2006-07-22 12:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Giovanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be so much with her, that u might annoy her. You might understand if you have like a little sister that is all the time with you, and you feel very anoyed. She says she doesn't want to see u 24/7. then that might be it, u may be with her so much that she can't do anything BUT be with you, and i don't think that's what most girls want.
2006-07-22 12:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by coyote 13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of the classic blow-offs, like "I love you but I'm not in love with you". It's meant to keep you thinking and just within reach (just in case) while she gets in good with the guy who is about to replace you.
Best thing you could do in my opinion would be not to attempt to contact her for 6 months. If anything would make her want you more, that would. Otherwise, she's a write-off.
2006-07-22 12:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by tspbrady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first how old are you and how long have you been togeather..? if she wants space means she wants to tal or see someone else..if u both always been seeing each other and all of a sudden she wants to have some space ..i dont think thats a good idea to give her space unless u are willing to let her do as she wishes i dont know thats what i think
2006-07-22 12:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a few different things. Worst-case scenario, she is losing interest and wants to explore other avenues, or you're smothering her with too much attention, or maybe she needs more space to do her own thing.
2006-07-22 12:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by reyza2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be possessive and let her do what she wants to do,e.g her hobbies, outing with her girlfriends etc etc..i know u love her,u can show your love in other means...not be with her 24/7..trust me what you are doing to her rite now might just sour your relationship....save your relationship!!!! do as she wants it if you really think this is your love of your life.....may the force be with you
2006-07-22 12:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by FUAD A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋