when I was going out fior a night out...she said 'Are you going to speak to me' ...I ignored her and carried on to speak to my mum to tell her I was going out. My sister said in aloud voice 'We have not spoken for two weeks'...i just ignored her. As I guessed as soon as I stepped out the door ...she begins shouting at my 68 year old mother (she is 30 years old) that we should be talking and that my mum should sought it out. She called me a bastard and I slapped the door. I don't trust her..she is a liar, manipulator, and again as predicted she can't speak in a decent way she has to raise her voice and cry...pathetic. Well I was determined not to let her ruin my night. She is in no way grown up. I am just going to come home from work everynight , get my dinner and stay in my room....that has suited me fine over the last two weeks ...than having to make an effort with her as my sister. We are not close. If we were not related she wouldn't want to know me anyway. Is she is overreacting?
2006-07-22 05:07:32 · 15 answers · asked by Rain M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
sounds like a pretty normal relationship between siblings(LOL)
2006-07-22 05:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it sounds just like you have the problem. Your sister has made an 'effort' to talk to you and YOU IGNORED HER.
You have the problem that is clear, so YOU should GROW UP, take the words back and stop acting like a spoilt child.
As for her shouting at your mother, well I think that is pure frustration from your sister at banging her head against the wall with you.
In my opinion - which you asked for YOU are the pathetic 1.
2006-07-22 12:16:53 · answer #2 · answered by á?¦ Magic á?¦ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every family more or less every family anyway,has arguments dissagreements,and the like if she is going over the top then dont rise above it,speak to her when she calms down.tell her youll talk to her when she is ready to speak rationally an calmly.all the bestxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-07-22 12:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sister is 30, how old are you? should you all still be living with mummy at your ages? Perhaps if you just pretend to love each other it will be okay?
2006-07-22 12:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by BRICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not go to you're room you may be mad but you should start talking to her.you two would never spend time with each other if you are acting like this.appoligize ask her if you two want to go to dinner and talk to her start it over
2006-07-22 12:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the H*ll are you still living with your mother and sister for anyway?!
2006-07-22 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Tony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try locking her in a cupboard, after applying tape to her mouth, just think of the quiet....
2006-07-22 12:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by OLLIE_WOLLIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole situation is daft, your mother needs to get a backbone and stand up to your sister and so do you, or another solution would be to chin your sister and move out
2006-07-22 12:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by chunky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called happy families !
2006-07-22 12:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds really immature on both your parts.
2006-07-22 12:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋