I feel ashamed & Burning when I found her looking & keeping on staring (Eye to Eye Contact) Passing smiles, etc., to other males regardless their age / Looks etc, if its male its enough for her & she has a habbit of doing so.
I am reasonably handsome & much better in the Bed & she always says I am satisfied from you....
I love her a lot & told her that It will ruin the relation between us but all in vain.... I give her time attention & reasonable expenses as she desires means everything....
Currently She is Pregnant & in the 9th Month, Even Now?
I am unable to Teach her or Stop her or understand the reason for this so poor Lust, Please Advise me what should I do?
2006-07-22 05:00:09 · 26 answers · asked by Beware_I'm_Here 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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I accept that when some one Good Looking Come before we loose our Control & start seeing to her. But If a Lady can dare to have eye to Eye Contact with man over her father's Age... Pass on Smiles ....
Rare but like her touching to her feet etc. etc..
She even has interset in Ugly looking Servent type people.
All this burn me..... Just bearing her because She is the mother of my 1 Child & other expected in 2-3 weeks... as I dont want to Spoil the Life of My Children...
2006-07-23 19:16:25 · update #1
look dude these retard don't understand that it gets under your skin and you love this woman but my best advice is when she looks at a guy draw her out make her look like the fool walk off from her when she asks why say something like you liked the way he looks i figured you were going home with him but be calm cool see she is trying to get under your skin
not to be the sour apple but if she looks are you really sure your the daddy?
and another thing to do is walk up with her to another woman that is more attrative than her and just flirt a little if your in a clothing store as the other chick what she thinks about a shirt or pants instead of your wife it will make her feel what you feel then she will quit
2006-07-22 05:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am totally with grace on this one! Not only is she pregnant and has raging hormones, she probably feels "fat." A smile from another guy is just an innocent way to reassure herself. As for looking..she's married to you, bud...but c'mon, she's not dead. My wife and I make a game of pointing out "lookers" for each other. She finds women for me to rate and I find men for her to rate. We get great conversations through this, and we learn about each other too. But at the end of the day..we go home together! I don't care if she looks at other guys, I would start worrying when she stops looking...cause then she might have found something..or is very ill. either way..bad news. Lighten up and stop being so jealous over something so innocent. Maybe it's your own insecurity you need to review..how do you know you are that much better in bed? A bit too much ego perhaps? Just lighten up and enjoy the fun with her.
2006-07-22 05:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you really feel. If she is only looking and thats it, I wouldn't get to worried. You can try doing the same thing to women passing, but I don't think it will bother her. Maybe she is doing this to see if she can push your buttons. Try ignoring it, maybe she will get the pic that you don't care and she will quit doing it where you notice it.
My hubby and I have gone through this, he stares at women all the time, I always say my smarta** comments, like don't you wish you could hit some of that, normally that pisses him off and he quits looking. He has found that it does not bother me, and doesn't pay atttention to other women.
2006-07-22 05:08:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunflowerlizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it's okay for her to keep looking, as long as she gets in the bathtub and gives you an underwater bj at least 3 nights a week ...
Seriously ... I think looking is just looking. I know it's hard to accept, mate, but try.
If it really bothers you that much, talk to her about it -- but make sure you let her know that you're not accusing her of anything. Let her know that you're selfish when it comes to her, because you love her that much.
2006-07-22 05:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows you are good; but she needs social recognition also from others. It may not have anything against you. Her social needs are more strong than yours. You as a man who wants to own his woman, naturally are jealous.
By the way, do you like to look at beautiful women and get their attention and acknoledgement of you as a man?
2006-07-22 05:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by stvenryn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try showing her how it feels. Especially in her 9th month. Start looking at every female and giving them the eye.
2006-07-22 05:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaa... SHES PREGNANT! Thats probably why shes doing that. I WOULD TOO!!! I check guys & girls out ALL THE TIME! Most guys do it too. My husband is always telling me about some new hot waitress at bw3, or a cashier at walmart, I DONT CARE... I know that I already got him, so Im not worried at him looking.
2006-07-22 05:03:36 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a guy...if you say that you don't even in the slightest way, glace in the direction of other women(if not oggle them like every other guy in the world)
you are the biggest liar EVER
2006-07-22 05:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with looking. My husband looks at other women when we're out in public but I don't care because I'm always the one he goes home with.
2006-07-22 06:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by cryptoscripto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is pregnant she thinks she is not attractive and looking at other guys and/or maybe other guys looking at her makes her feel like she attractive! Once she has the baby it should stop but if it doesn't don't waste your time on her!!
2006-07-22 05:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋