why does my wife not want to make love to me?

Answer 1

you smell?

Answer 2

for me, my husband use to be abusive, both verbally and physically, nothing i ever did seemed to be the way he wanted it, he was smoking joints and drinking beer and whatever with his friends and came home high and expected me to be a willing partner, i wasn't, but i did just to keep from arguing. it became just having sex, bam, wham, thank you mame. that's all i felt. then after more than 25 years of marriage, he became involved with a young woman about 25 years old and she was very disrespectful, and he allowed it. i remember so very well, the day my mother died and we had just got back home from the hospital and the phone rung, he answered it and said he couldn't talk now because my mother had just passed. i told him to go be with her, i didn't need his fake sympathy now, he didn't give it before and nothing had changed. the day of my mother's funeral he left me and our 16 year old daughter home a lone that night. he came home about 3am. things pile up and feelings change. we will be married 32 years in august, we are more like roommates than anything. no intimacy at all. and then he has the nerve to ask me why i don't want to have sex anymore. i suppose all the times i told him why doesn't make any difference to him. so ask your wife, and be honest about it and you may find out some things you may not want to hear. HAPPY ENDINGS!

Answer 3

Pray and ask the Lord Jesus Christ and he will give you advise and pray for your wife as will I today.
Get In a Bible believeing church that LOves the Lord and give yourlife to him.

Hey the woman I am going to marry thinks I am good looking and I am no bargain,lol
In the name of Jesus I pray(our God has a great sence of Humor,proof Is that he created Me amen)

Answer 4

Maybe she's just not in the mood. Maybe you did something to tick her off. Is she on any meds.? Do you have kids? Does she hate you? Are you having money problems? There are so many questions and so little answers. Why don't you just ask her why she is never in the mood anymore.

Good luck

Answer 5

Without knowing you, your wife, and the situation/relationship between both of you, no one can answer such a question. Any answers would only be guesses.

Answer 6

Maybe she does not feel sexy anymore. Perhaps her body has changed and she no longer thinks you desire her. Maybe she thinks you cheated? A new baby can do those things to a couple. Any newly added stressors. Do something special for her...

Answer 7

act like u are dating her and make her feel special and give her flowers just because and not for any occasion. Make her feel like u love and appreciate her for all the things she does for u and your family and i am sure she will start liking you! That will be a start.

Answer 8

you gotta ask her. It can be for a million different reseans, and most of them arn't even about you. The majority are probably in herself, she may be dealing with something you have no idea about. mainly just talk to her bud.

Answer 9

Wow, that question leaves answers wide open. One is, she likes to self-gratify, and doesn't need you. or she has a boyfriend, or you have been married for more than 3 years and it has lost it's luster.

Answer 10

wash more,get ur teeth fixed. learn love making ways. shut up once in a while.stop being a slop.

Answer 11

There are lots of reasons this could be happening....some of them you can take steps to fix and other times it is just a phase. Talk to her about it.
Good Luck.