2006-07-22 04:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
No, of course not. Trust is not (and should not be) automatic.
2006-07-22 04:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually not! But it should be a sign that they are insecure.
However, as you and many others disagree, trust is something that is personal. It directly relates to the amount of confidence you have in yourself or how insecure you are.
If you are very confident and secure in yoursefl you will trust people to a high level. This level of trust is affected by your past experience and your ability to learn from those expereinces.
On the flip side, if you are not confident and insecure you will tend to be less trusting in people. More suspicous about others. This usually reflects on your past experiences and mostly reflect your 'bad' experiences.
Trust should never be earned and it is very arrogant of the person to require someone else to earn their trust. If you have had bad experiences in the past with someone else, you can't hold next person accountable for that mistrust. Look at the past behavior and incident and learn from it. You may find that your trust was broken because there was not an understandable agreement between the both of you.
Finally, at some point and time you will have to trust someone to a certain level. The first step is to allow the other person to show you that they also value trust as you do. You can only do this by trusting them.
2006-07-22 08:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont believe that they are not trust worthy,They could have been hurt before and this Is the number 1 reson that people dont trust or there parents did not trust
2006-07-22 04:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Most likely, that person has been burned by other people in the past. So it will take a while before that person will be able to trust again.
2006-07-22 04:33:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is a little hazy, but it would seem you are asking about a person that doesn't trust being untrustworthy. I would say that just because they don't trust others it does not mean that they are untrustworthy. Their opinion of others doesn't necessarily reflect on their character. I would however look into the reasons that they don't trust others. good luck to ya.
2006-07-22 04:45:12 · answer #5 · answered by takensobackoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and no. if someone has experienced some mistrust in their relationships like cheating or lying, then they have to learn how to trust again. it means they have to learn to allow themselves to be vulnerable. and the other person would have to earn back that trust. on the other hand, someone who manipulates, deceives, or lies may not trust others because they are subconsciously aware of this about themselves and it transfers to them thinking others can't be trusted either. which really is not the case.
2006-07-22 05:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are often least tolerant of habits in others that they see in themselves and we often judge others based on our own values. While it's not always the case, you could also be dealing with someone who is very trustworthy themselves, but has been deeply hurt by someone else who was lacking in that respect.
2006-07-22 07:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kindly clarify your question
2006-07-22 04:34:27 · answer #8 · answered by pious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always
2006-07-22 04:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by Baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋