i think its is but am i being unfair to him?
2006-07-22 04:21:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
A BIT RETARDED
WOW I WISH I HAD YOUR PARENTS
FREE RIDE BABY
2006-07-22 04:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy is it ever!!! My boyfriend (finally) kicked his son out. He is also 30 yrs old. Works full time, drives a truck that my BF gave him......yet instead of paying rent and taking responsibility...... he sits around playing video games all day. Makes absolutely no effort to contribute what-so-ever. How can you call yourself a "man" when you live off daddy and his gf, expecting them to feed you, pay your bills etc. Tragic? Yes!
And no, you are not being unfair.
2006-07-22 04:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by cindy1576 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the times they are a changin.
I wonder just how much time being alone and lonly it will take for pepole to start thinking of the extended family again.
Before WW2 it was common for familys to have not just two but somtimes as much as four generations living in the same house.
Now the homes wer larger back then and had a farm atached to a lot but still what is wrong with having family around.
2006-07-22 04:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My kid brother is a 32 year-old pothead. After my other younger brother died from a heart defect at age 37, he moved back in on Mom and Dad, knowing he could get a free ride by playing on their sympathy. He's not allowed in my house, because we have to take inventory of small items every time he leaves.
2006-07-22 04:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna say yes!
While there is technically nothing WRONG with it, it is not helping with his self-esteem, independence, or motivational development.
While guys usually take longer than girls to get out of the house, I think the situation is a shame. He needs to be on his own figuring out what is it like to be a man. Having to support yourself, pay bills etc.
If he ever wants to get married he needs to get out on his own and live in the real world for a while.
2006-07-22 04:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by kymmieluvsmakeup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends why. If he has always lived with his parents then yeah I think that's a bit sad and he should get some Independence if he moved back with parents b/c of problems then that's understandable as a temporary measure until he sorts himself out
2006-07-22 04:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No, with the constant price of housing going up and up and not all jobs paying good wages its hard for many to leave home. But a lot of people are married come 25 and have to leave home comforts even if its renting. I hope at least he gives your parents at least 65% of his wages for his room.
2006-07-22 04:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by angrybuthappy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your parents are allowing him to stay there (for whatever reason) then he should stay there. Do you live at home? If not, then it is no longer your business and it is not up to you to judge the decisions made by your parents or your brother.
2006-07-22 04:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very tragic....he needs to get out on his own. Does he even have a job?
2006-07-22 04:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear ... yes that is very tragic !!
tell him to go get a job ... and get a bit of a life ..... and stop living off of mummy and daddy !!!
sorry ... i did actually mean that in the nicest possible way ... !!!
2006-07-22 04:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by snooky me! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there's always hope.
my elder son moved out last summer, at the age of 29.
i just had to wait for another woman to come along and take him off my hands.
thankyou claire.
2006-07-22 04:56:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋