About a week back me and my bf were making love and condon broke.Soon as we realized its broken i went to the bathroom.Everything came out,as per my thinking but still i know there is alot left inside.I suppose to get my period on 25 and the condom broke on 16th.Today is 22 i have no sysmptoms of my period,I am not feeling any soreness in my chest which i usually do before my period.Yesterday all of the sudden i was feeling really weak and pale and nauses.My bf asked me if i want to eat some chinesse food,Thinking of that food made me feel so sick in my stomach.Never happend before.Can i be pregnant?or is it to early to tell?and why does my bf have this smile on his face everytime i say i maybe pregnant because i know i am going to get an abortion done,Does he think its funny?
2006-07-22 03:40:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you can take a test the day that your period is due - that should be able to tell you. stressing over this may stop your period for a few days and will make you even more stressed.
as for an abortion - seriously think about it before you make a decision - and talk about it first with your bf. he might just like the idea of being a dad -it doen't mean that he is laughing at you.
the only way to tell for sure is to have a test - a lot of the symtoms of pregnancy are also symtoms of a period - or a bug to be honest, so there might be another reson why you feel so unwell.
i would try to relax about it until you get the test done - if it is negative then wait for your period or do another a few days afterwards. if it is positive then whatever you decide you will need to go to the doctor
good luck
2006-07-22 03:48:22 · answer #1 · answered by rheainscotland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little too early to tell. You might just want to wait and see what happens, and in a couple weeks (period or no period) take a test to be sure. Sometimes if it's in your head already that you "could be pregnant" then your body acts like it anyways in a sense. Especially with things like nausea, etc, sometimes it's also because of the stress of not knowing and worrying about it. You can also be pregnant whether you have your period or not.
Maybe you need to be on some kind of birth control & using condom's if pregnancy is so unwanted for you that you are willing to have an abortion. Or maybe if your young you shouldn't be doing it at all. While I understand the first part of the question, the last part seems a little irresponsible, especially because you don't even know and have the plan that you will rid your body of the pregnancy or maybe you've had that planned for a while before this. Either way you need some serious birth control if that is the case. And..no one should think it's funny that a life has ended.
2006-07-22 03:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by amason1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember stress can set your period back awhile. My gf has been going through a stressful time and was suppose to get hers on 7/12, but didn't until 7/18. You might want to check and see if you have been taking any new medications or things like because antibiotics and new meds can cause your body to delay your period as we found out. Good Luck.
2006-07-22 04:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sucks - been there done that - but just remember that if you're stressed out that you may be pregnant that could affect your period. My advice is to go out and get a two pack of EPT's take one now, if you are, it may pick up on it already, and then you know, but if it comes out negative wait and see if you do get your period (at least until the 30th) and then take the second one. If you are pregnant don't go through things alone...if you feel like you can't talk to family, go to planned parenthood and talk to a counselor.
As for your boyfriend, I'm sure that he's not ready for a kid as he can't even take you seriously...I would re-evaluate your relationship however things turn out.
2006-07-22 03:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by jillymack06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be pregnant. You can almost tell 24 hours after having sex. I think it's sweet that your bf is happy if he thinks you are. Most men aren't happy about that. You are stupid if you are thinking about having an abortion. If you are gonna end the life of an innocent child, then I pray to God you are not pregnant. Get a pregnancy test. Good luck!
2006-07-22 03:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by curious_boricua_soul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor
Basically every time you get knocked up you are going to just kill a baby...you are selfish and a murderer!
USE BIRTH CONTROL, NOT JUST CONDOMS EITHER.
Of all the times I used a condom I never had one break on me and birth control pills have always worked for me till my husband and I plan on having a baby. Children are a gift from God and people like you should not be killing them because you are too selfish and irresponsible.
2006-07-22 05:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abortion is not the answer. you don't kill an innocent unborn child for a sin you comitted especially when you're having sex just for pleasure and getting an abortion as a means of birth control.
I think your bf want to be a father...? Im not sure though
2006-07-22 03:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by Xianpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just your bf's way of dealing with it. Yes, too eary to tell, wait until you were supposed to get your period and then take a pregnancy test.
2006-07-22 03:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by pizzagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u the best way take a preg test at home n then if it positive then go to doc, n if not then take care next time n may hbe ur bf wanna this baby n father to be
2006-07-22 04:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Madi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait few more days. It's soon even for a doctor to tell you whether you are pregnant or not.
2006-07-22 03:44:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋