My husband is in the army and i havent seen him in 6 months and i was wondering if anybody had any ideas how to make today special...anything really i am really freaking out...
2006-07-22 03:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by Just Sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him how many women he slept with while hes was deployed. I guarantee at least one or two.
2006-07-22 03:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many expectations and too much worry and planning can spoil any event. Yes, plan something special, but small and don't sweat the small stuff. Don't plan out the whole evening or have expectations of how the day will go.
You know him better than us. What does he like to eat, drink, do? After a long absence and a long trip home he may want to relax and veg with talk and snuggling etc. He may also want to visit others so maybe schedule a get-together for sometime soon - but not the first night. I love to suggest bubble baths and massages!
I especially like jokers answer. I agree with the meal, clean house, alone time and looking your best for him, but not a hotel room because he has been away and wants to be with you but also to come HOME.
Best Wishes.
2006-07-22 10:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's the middle of summer, but- if you have a rain coat, show up at the airport wearing it with nothing under neath. When you get to the ca (make sure no ones around) and give him a peek. Take him to the hotel that you made reservations for (find one with an in-room Jacuzzi). Have champagne and dinner delivered to you room and stay in the entire night enjoying each others company.
2006-07-22 10:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very exciting. I can understand your nervousness. Go get a manicure and a pedicure, get your hair done and find something you know he would like you to wear. Have a nice dinner ready for him, at home, don't go out anywhere, even if you buy the food from a nice restaurant, but set it up at home, with candles, and fresh flowers. Make sure the house is nice and clean and smelling mighty nice. Have fresh linen on the bed, and a nice nighty for yourself, for when your ready to go to bed. Have a nice robe for him with a soft pair of slippers ready for him. Girl, go all out for this man. Show him how much you've missed him. Have fun, and relax, if you don't get all this done, don't worry, I am positive he will be just happy to be home with you.
2006-07-22 10:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband doesn't need anything fancy. He is tired and needs to rest and relax and feel the comfort of home. Maybe in 2 weeks time you can go for a candlelit dinner., just the 2 of you.
2006-07-22 11:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the house clean with his favorite meal cooked and the kids at mom's house for the weekend. Have on his favorite perfume and something sexy to slip into later. If you don't have anything you find sexy enough for the occasion; buy a couple of bows for your birthday-suite. Christmas in July (smile).
2006-07-22 10:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure...place flower petals all around your house..enjoy a evening in some catch up time with a very nice candle light dinner...then the next day take off and go to a amusement park that should lvl everything out!
2006-07-22 10:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sam..just tell him and show him how much you love and have missed him. (Give him extra BIG hugs and kisses in public..what you do behind closed doors..use your imagination..hehehehe!) If you can cook (or order out at least) give him his favourite meal..after 6 months of army food..he'll appreciate it! Let him talk too..listen and be as supportive as you can..he's been just as lonely as you have been. Most of all...tell him what you just said..how much you miss him! Good luck and God bless!
2006-07-22 10:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes meet him with something sexy on. rent a hotel room with it decorated with candles. or if you are alone at home dim the lights put some candles up .on your way home pick up some take out food and you and him have a romantic dinner with out all the cooking and t hen seduce him. im sure after being away he is craving some loving.
2006-07-22 10:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just seeing you will be exciting enough. Love him with all your heart and make sure the house is quiet with no interruptions for a couple days.
2006-07-22 10:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋