my boyfriend of 9 months has gone away on tour and i miss him so much it hurts and i cry all the time - even when im out with my friends all i can think about is the one person who is missing
2006-07-22 03:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's natural to miss someone that is so very special in your life!!! I know how you feel my Son will be over in Germany for about a year and i miss him so much at times! At first I cried so much but then I decided to email him and talk on the phone as much as time permits.That helps but while I'm here at home I just find things to keep myself busy like cleaning or walking just keeping the mind occupied!!! Before you know it you will look up and everything will be alright because as the days continue to go by quickly they will be home before you know it!
2006-07-22 03:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Women and girls always get hurt more in a breakup than guys do, studies show, even when the girl initiates it. You can't find words, because the ball is in his court and he is letting it bounce. He is showing you he isn't interested and as you say, he's doing fine. You have already been rejected. You did the right thing and threw him out. Now, get busy and get on with your life. Take a Tylenol PM until the insomnia goes away, Always make plans for the next day, so you do have something to look forward to. Don't cry and don't eat. Easy to say, hard to do.
2016-03-16 03:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't try and quit there's part of the problem you have alot of pain and emotion inside crying is Gods way of us letting that out.. Then you might start writing the things your grateful for nor matter how small or how big that you have in your life from family to boyfriend that's alive. to a roof over your head believe before you know it you'll be actually happy and thankful and have alot of faith he will come home safe...
2006-07-22 03:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kat (with wisdom under her hat) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh , I'm sorry to hear that , but don't worry coz he'll come back again and you'll be together , contact him whenever you miss him , and show him how much you care about him , I'm just like you , sensitive and romantic , Please don't cry and try to be happy all the time . I wish you a happy and wonderfull life . Omer
2006-07-22 03:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Omer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sharky, next time you talk with him on phone, let him know that you're crying for missing him. I bet, he'll either make arrangements for you to join him there or he comes back immediately to fetch you. Will you stop crying now? Cheers and good luck.
2006-07-22 03:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm certain that many folks can refer you to many good books that you can read, that they feel can help you endure the pain that you are feeling, just now . . . and I'll bet that this advice (read something) is just NOT what you are seeking?
SO - if/when you are able to find a few 'dry/clear eyes' moments -
here's a link (quick read) that will cost you 0$s, and all online. This amazing author (now deceased) has helped countless numbers of folks handle life pain . . . amazingly. The title that helped me most?" How to handle the loss of . . ."
http://www.mcwilliams.com/books/books/
Best wishes to you in your path of daily coping - life ain't easy.
2006-07-22 03:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep crying until you can't cry anymore. By then the 9 months will be up and he'll be home.
2006-07-22 03:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its great to know you have a strong love for your BF. find some hobbies to take up anything to keep your mind preoccupied, stay away from Soaps on TV and country music both of those will cause you to think of him more often and cause emotions to stir
talk to your BF on the Internet daily if possible or at least once a week you to need to plan a Internet date
Good luck and be strong
2006-07-22 03:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by eaglerock60 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say call him everday and try to relive every time that you guys spent together.
2006-07-22 03:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jenifer O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh sweetheart is that much u love him lucky him i really blame him how could he go anywhere with u anyway u just remember the happiest moments u had together or see anyone he love and talk to him about ur bf maybe his mumm
2006-07-22 03:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by remo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋