a person asks for your forgiveness but she is not telling you the harm or hurt you inflicted on that person. SO you are puzzled, but she begs for your forgiveness.
2006-07-22 03:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by pious 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Perhaps she is really asking for a sign of unconditional affirmation for her as a person so that no matter what she does, she knows that you "are there for her".
It's baloney. Get to the bottom of this. The consequences of whatever she did are hers. I would speculate that she ducks the hard stuff in more than just this situation. It's the negative consequences that are going to pressure her to develop character, not the phony sense of security knowing that despite her lousy behavior some respectable guppy somewhere will still believe that she won't wrong them any more.
2006-07-22 03:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by bizsmithy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forgive & Forget
2006-07-22 03:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will forgive her only when you know what she has done to you!That way you will know what she did to you so she HAD to beg for forgiveness.Watch your back!
2006-07-22 03:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by david w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she feels what ever she did to you is kinda unforgiving but she is guilty so rather tell you what she did she just ask for forgiveness. Its kinda tricky know first what she did before you forgive.
2006-07-22 03:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you seem to be the only one who has a clue what you're talking about, you comment on it!
2006-07-22 03:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive, but stay away from that person.
2006-07-22 03:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh? I don't understand...did you hurt someone, did someone hurt you, what's the deal, there? Sounds like a painful conversation, at any rate...
2006-07-22 03:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she is saying...you hurt me but im not going to tell you what you did..tell her.. how can i apologize for something i didnt do..unless she tells you..your apology is pointless
2006-07-22 03:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clear your question.
2006-07-22 03:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by satya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋