hi, i have a queer problem. i have this best friend of mine and a fortnight ago we did a reunion kinda thing. (for the past two years we were busy with work and never had the time for each other). it was at a hotel and we partied till late in the night (there were other friends with us too). there were drinks and i shared much more than i should have with him. the next thing i know is waking up naked beside him in the morning with a splitting headache. i left without a word. i was literally avoiding him the whole week but then he got me and we had a talk. he sounded anguished and apologetic about the whole thing. i know i can never face him now tho we made a pact that day to forget all that happened. it's killing me. what should i do?
2006-07-22 02:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by lola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately when we make the choice to over indulge in alcohol then we can make bad decisions that can ruin our lives and friendships. If you can't get over the situation then hopefully the lesson will be one that you can remember next time. It is a sad, life-altering situation.
2006-07-22 03:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by norsktjej1964 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im assuming u r a girl, and u were drunk, and he was drunk, so dont blame urself or him. r u married??? if u r, then bad thing, if not, not so bad, but still not great. it wasn't wrong, who hasent done something like this while intoxicated. is he maried??? same thing, if yes, bad bad bad, if not, still not great. honnor the pact and forget it. or.......... do u have any fellings for him? if so, confront him. tell him how u feel now, and im sure he will understand. COMMUNICATION is the best thing for ppl, so communicate. tell him how u feel, and then decidewhats best.
2006-07-22 10:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by Katie C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he take advantage of you when you were drunk or do you think he spiked your drink? Either way, not much of a friend. Keep well away from him and tell him why - the reason. He took advantage of you.
2006-07-22 10:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh. i think the best thing to do is NOT FORGET what happened. accept it, and move on. you both got drunk, you both didn't know what you were doing(supposedly...), and you both can choose whether or not you want to do it again. seriously, SEX IS NOT BAD. it's okay, it's fine, it's natural, and it only has to happen when you want it to. you're okay, just don't feel guilty about this.
2006-07-22 10:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had a gay experience. Apparantly all men have homosexual fantasies, but I sure as hell don't. So pretend it's natural and go have sex with alot of women to make up for it.
2006-07-22 10:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about how you feel and try to get back to the friendship you had. All friends have stupid nights together and they can get past it.
2006-07-22 10:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it again and see if you still feel the same way.
2006-07-22 10:03:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to see it as ajoke or try to completely forget about it
2006-07-22 10:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Ambsz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend you feel
2006-07-22 10:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
convince him
2006-07-22 10:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by vasan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋