has started to see this guy ... i know for a fact that he's with her for who she is .... and the perks that come with her job ... he is a complete asshole .... she is blind to it and is falling for him .. the snake .... i want her to be happy .. but he really is using her ... what should i do ?
2006-07-22 02:53:50 · 19 answers · asked by snooky me! 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
nothing if you say something she will not believe you and your friendship may suffer, and the more you tell her he is no good the more she will want to be with him ...thats life im afraid. she will find out herself just make sure you are there for her when she does to help her pick up the peices. i had simarly thing with my mate and had to just let her find out what a two timing **** he was she says know that if i had told her she wouldnt of listen. good luck to your mate just be there for her
2006-07-22 06:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing!! Except my BF married the guy. Now, of course, she's realizing what a jerk he is. I am a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. Say nothing until she expresses her disappointment with him, then reassure her feelings. Never say anything nasty, though. They may get back together and you'll be out of the picture. Maybe he makes her happy. Try to focus on that. Even if he is using her, she's obviously happy with him, or she wouldn't be there either. You're a good friend for worrying. I'd be lucky to have you!! :)
2006-07-22 02:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by 4in5yearsMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have to find out on their own and if you try to tell your friend, make sure you have all the facts right. If she doesn't listen the first time, stay out of it or it could damage your relationship with your friend. But be there for her when it all falls apart, not to say I told you so, but to help comfort her. I'll bet she'll realize that you were right and then she'll know what a true friend you are.
2006-07-22 02:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicken always blind fold to snake,they only realize when in darkness of being eaten
2006-07-22 03:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid theres nothing you can do, whatever you say she will ignore if she really likes him. Dont get involved, difficult i know but if you keep slagging him she will just resent you and stop calling. All you can do is be there when it comes crashing down. I do believe that we have to go through these things so we can learn from our mistakes. Keep your chin up xx
2006-07-22 02:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you feel you just want the best for your friend but I think you should just let it be let her see him for what he is let her make her own mistake, just be there if things get messy and she will need a friend. If you force the issue she might see you in a bad light and end up hurting your friendship. I know its annoying to just watch but again its your friends decision
2006-07-22 02:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call! Be honest with her. Tell her how you feel. If he is such a jerk, than they'll end up breaking up anyway, and she'll resent you speaking your feelings then. Tell her up front. She may get mad at first, but will appreciate it in the long run.
2006-07-22 02:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by SyrTurtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her fall. When she hits the pavement, be there to pick her up. That's what friends do. She must learn for herself that he has a hidden agenda.
2006-07-22 02:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you seem to be lookin out for your friend..which is good.. you should let her find out for herself. We are quick to judge when another girl..especially a friend steps in and tells us the guy isnt right for us. If he is really using her ...she will find out eventually.
2006-07-22 02:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all,, she'll have to find out for herself,, love really is blind I'm afraid,,I wish her luck.
2006-07-22 02:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋