hi,
I have a friend who is very smart and can outdo any logical argument on why cheating is wrong. He has a lovely girlfriend and keeps cheating on her. I have stated the obvious (it damages trust, it makes the other person feel inadequate, std´s...) but he always comes away with a logical reason why it really doesn´t matter. in his favor, his girlfriend seem open to it, or at least turns a blind eye...what can i say?? should i simply give up? I don´t know why i get so angry about it!
2006-07-22 02:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by ingrid 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'd just leave it alone. She must know and he doesn't respect her or himself enough to stop. Let them live like this if they choose.
2006-07-22 02:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no logical argument why cheating is right, really. but if his girlfriend is open to it, and i'm not sure why she would be, there's not much you can say or do about it. you get angry about it for the obvious reasons, mainly because you are right and he thinks he is so smart, sounds kind of cocky to me, but the bottom line is you are right and he is wrong!! just thank your lucky stars he isn't your boyfriend, talk about getting angry!! i would just leave it alone and let them have each other, sounds like a great relationship. not......
2006-07-22 12:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to analyze why you get so upset at the notion of cheating. They could just have an open and honest relationship.
2006-07-22 23:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Doctor Mercado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her find out herself. The more you tell him its wrong, the more he will do it. But trust me, he will eventually see what it's doing and he'll regret it. You just concentrate on your life.
2006-07-22 10:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's so smart he's going to find himself all by himself in a few years now thats just dumb..let him hang himself thats what he seems to want..leave it be
2006-07-22 10:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, have sex with his girlfriend, then maybe he'll change his mind.
2006-07-22 09:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Bright Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheat with him then tell his girlfriend - BOOM, he'll get it
2006-07-22 09:50:39 · answer #7 · answered by jonnygaijin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a schmuck to me, jessica.
2006-07-22 09:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by THE Jester 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋