2006-07-22 02:46:11 · 6 answers · asked by lovelyu_asy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i already handle them, everyday. if i think it is true, all i do is see it as my fault and fix it. if someone says the same thing again, ill know they're wrong
2006-07-22 09:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by tomcat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consider the source. The opinions of others are general statements that reveal something about them and their values, so that their criticisms of others often reflect their displeasure that one of THEIR sensibilities had been offended. If they are a friend and understand you, then perhaps they do have something constructive to say in their criticism. Likewise, they may be someone you care about and it could be beneficial to the relationship to understand the basis of their criticism and find a resolution; otherwise, write it off and just keep moving.
2006-07-22 03:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by O. Wilde 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Destructive? Don't you mean constructive?
I'd handle it the same as any criticism. Take it in. Process it. And then move on.
2006-07-22 02:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show the person you care. I hate it when people criticize me!!!! I know it really hurts, but you have to just put it in one ear and out the other, don't let it make you feel depressed.
2006-07-22 03:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by keeping everything positive..say look i love you but think about it what if the Lord God came right at this very moment and we were standing here pointing fingers at one another screaming were going to feel pretty stupid arent we..sometimes you have to find a neutral ground to argue a point
2006-07-22 03:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell people to **** off if they're being nasty to you...
2006-07-22 03:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋