i have aman who does not care for me but i still have feelings for him.He is showing negative attitudes towards me and i feel i can not do without him.i have tried to ask him what the matter is but he said said nothing is the matter.so how can i go about it?or what can i do?
2006-07-22 02:26:32 · 10 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes it takes finding someone new to get over a past love. sad, but true. Get out there and try to make new friends and have other things to think about. If he were interested you would know it and if he's not there is nothing you can or can't do to change that. Life is full of heartaches sometimes. You are the only one who can make yourself happy again. Good luck to you!
2006-07-22 02:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation i was with the man for 4 years and had 3 children with him i thought i could make him love me but he didnt and he was negative towards me . i thought that one day he would see how much i loved him and he would change his mind one day he didnt and my attmpts just made him act more negative towards me i finally relized that no matter what i did nothiing was goiing to make him change his mind i didnt think i could go one without him ,i left 2 years ago and iam now married to love of my life who also shares the same love towards me i look back at it now and wonder why i ever thought i loved that man other then the children he never loved me and never appricated me . you sound like you are really sweet and you can do and deserve better then that and there is a man out there that will love you as much as you love him just be pacient and he will come around!
2006-07-22 09:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by sar sar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not care for you now, he won't later. Love yourself or care about yourself more than you do this man you're seeing. You deserve to be loved, adored, and respected; don't settle for this type of relationship. Say goodbye to him, and move on. Begin to discover and define you more. Ask yourself why would you stay with a man who does not care for you. Do not rush into another relationship until you know what you want from one. Also, do not rush into a relationship until you clearly understand how you got to the type of relationship you are currently in.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 09:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mindee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone else wrote that what would your advise be??
Sometimes its better to take your own advise than other peoples.
But you can make him talk to you or you can leave. Just remember that leaving is NOT you running away from the problem... You have to take care of yourself and if you are not feeling love in this realationship then why should you stay to be hurt!! Realationships arnt meant to be one gives and one takes. It sounds like your giving and he is taking.
Please dont get me wrong im not trying to tell you how you should feel or what you should belive.
BEST OF LUCK I HOPE YOU END UP HAPPY!!
2006-07-22 09:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would express to him what you just said, if he doesn't see it then move on, I am sure you have heard this before but life is too short, It is, go out and meet new people and before you know it you will meet new guy and be over Mr. Negativity. Good luck.
2006-07-22 09:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple words " He's not just into to you ". Move on dont waste you're time, you will find someone who'll love you...goodluck
2006-07-22 09:40:48 · answer #6 · answered by ladybee501 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll if that guy dosent care than move on its worth less
2006-07-22 09:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is someone out there who will treat you right..dont settle for this jerk. dont trust your emotions - trust your brain. you deserve better. good luck sweetie.
2006-07-22 09:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by turtles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it hurts, you can't make someone love you.... it's time to move on and find another love interest... someone who cna appreciate you
2006-07-22 09:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm...hug him and kiss him and be really friendly and tell him how much you love him. That should help.
2006-07-22 09:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by lustful_essence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋