he wrote email to me and invite me to exhibite my paiting at his place. he said " Anyway, I hope to invite you to my land in the future and even hope maybe you can do an exhibition there in the future if you want. I will support you in anyway that I can. Can even arrange catering for the opening ceremony or whatever."
we broke for 1 month and 18 days ago. i still sad. we still contact. this email is the latest one. I would like to know why he invite me or he want to get back or he want to leave me 'nice'way. Or something else.i would like to reply him that i happy and i want to get back to be gf. But i am not ready to say. Because last time i began to say some sort like that he said he called me and he want to say friendly not about talking in getting back. That make me cried later. How can i reply to him and tell him that i happy and respect this invitatation. That land and house is the place i and him wish to live and marry later but now , we broke.
2006-07-22 01:57:57 · 6 answers · asked by boathouse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't be too fast to go back...
He wants to be friends, wants to help get your name and paintings out in the public eye, put on an exhibition, arrange catering, etc. That sounds like an awful lot to do for an ex-girlfriend.
It sounds like he wants to make you feel obligated to him in some way. He wants you to feel that you owe him something... what? What does he think he will get out of it?
Find out his motives first, before you make ANY decisions.
2006-07-22 02:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't rush into anything. He may want you back and he may just be trying to be nice. I would just respond that it was nice of him to offer his place for exhibition, etc. That puts the ball back in his court. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
2006-07-22 02:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u care for him as much as u say u do,if i was u i would decline his invation,and wait on his next email,u may c,that he does still like u,n wants more than friendship,but if he does not,then u will truley no,in ure heart,that u should move on,dont hang on to someone,who really does not want u like u want him,good luck,give yourself a chance,to meet someone else,he could b right n front of u n u will never no true love,if u try to hang onto someone,who really does not care for u.hope u have a really nice day.
2006-07-22 02:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by kathy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My exs? I miss what we had, but them? No, not really. I mean it sucks and all but I'm not going to dwell on it. Theres plenty of fish in the sea, and I've met a very awesome fish. Now lets see where that goes..
2016-03-27 02:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting him control your strings he may very well know that you still have feelings for him so he keeps you around but at an arms distance , you have to control this you tell him NO THANK-YOU even though his offer sounds great sometimes you have to be wise enough to not let temptation get you!
2006-07-22 02:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go, politely tell him you don't think its a good idea for you to do this. It didn't work the first time why will it now????????
I get a bad feeling about this.
2006-07-22 02:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by kerryjonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋