A copuples wks ago i met a guy he is senior in college and i'm freshwomen and we shared e-mail and so, on monday he wrote me an e-mail and i answered it. I answered because i need to have friends, social life,parties, bla bla... But yesterday he told me if i wanted to go out to drink some coffee with him and a friend next week. I just want to be FRIEND with him but i don't know if we wants more. What can i do to make him clear that i just want to be friend and not more? will i go out with him?
2006-07-22 01:56:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anne Greco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him the truth now so he doesn't think you were leading him on
2006-07-22 01:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go have coffee with him and tell him the truth you can hang out but as friends only and tell him you don't want him to get the wrong idea and pay for your own. friends do hang out with each other if he put his arm around you or tries to hold your hand you know he is wanting to be more then a friend if you feel more comfortable take another friend with you.
If you don't really want to be his friend then don't go.
2006-07-22 02:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth up front. Yalk to him. Yes go with him and his friends to get coffee. There is no harm in going out with a couple of friends. Just talk to him and make your intensions clear before you go out with them.
2006-07-22 02:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man-woman friendship can be a fine thing. I met a WAVE in WWII, and we became good friends. For five years we wrote and talked on the phone and she asked my advice about men. It finally ended when she married and became pregnant.
2006-07-22 02:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by ringocox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay First of all, Tell him that u cant and that ur sorry and then tell him i just want to be friendz but i think itz not tha right time to go any futher.....
2006-07-22 02:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo u should try at least one time so that you would know whether or not he could be your friend. But if you really feel it to then just refuse it.
2006-07-22 02:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. you can go out with him but tell me you see him as friend.
2006-07-22 02:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. thats all i could come up with.
2006-07-22 02:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋