my neighbot lives next door and he told me that a guy came over 2 months ago a few times a day noontime parks a red stationwagon in fron of the house . and my wife s car is in driveway. kids are in school. would you believe the neighbor or the wife... wife says i never cheated on you ever. what should i do or who should i believe i feel i still can't trust her and it drives me crazy...help thanx!!
2006-07-22 01:56:08 · 11 answers · asked by johnnny805 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her for starters then take it from there I'm sure you can tell when she's lying!
2006-07-22 03:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say tell them. Their wives have a right to know as well, but be prepared to take alot of crap from alot of people. First of all, really have your story straight when telling these women that their husbands cheated on them, if not more than likely they will turn on you or want complete proof. Im a married woman and would want to know, no matter who it was from. But...I would need some kind of verification. Good luck to you, I wish you the best and I hate it that you had to go through this. You did the best thing by getting the hell away from her. That was brave and took alot of guts to walk away from her. Kudos to you! :)
2016-03-27 02:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think second hand info is horrible and you have to think why would you neighbor be telling you this? you never let an outsider break up your marriage believe your wife for right now if she did cheat believe me time will tell you what ever you do in the dark has to come to the light.
2006-07-22 02:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife has never given you a reason to mistrust her in the past, then you need to trust her now. You may never know the truth but you do know that she is with you, so don't ruin it by letting your suspicions get the best of you. Good luck!
2006-07-22 02:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would believe my wife,until i knew for sure.i know if i were gonna cheat i SURE wouldnt let him come to my house ! did she tell you who the red stationwagon belonged to ? this brings me back to and old saying..believe nothing that you hear and half of what you see.
2006-07-22 04:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by mississippi queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee so much for trust in ur marriage. Ur neighbour who eva he is should have a plate no or more info if it was soooo regular and obvious otherwise hes jealous and just trying to fuxt u up. i have met people that luv to cause trouble and try to break up partners for no reason other that they r jealous or bored
2006-07-22 02:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by howie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you neighbor is trying to get you to think about something else to cover up what he wants to do with your wife. Or maybe the red station wagon is his boyfriend......
2006-07-22 02:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all it takes for you to mistrust your wife, your marriage is not in good shape...If I were her, I would have booted your butt to the curb!
2006-07-22 03:09:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why this guy come ? Can she show the reason? when she tell you can she look at your eye or she try to do something else. hiding the fact.
2006-07-22 02:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by boathouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she have anything to say as to why this guy was at your house while you were at work?
2006-07-22 02:00:01 · answer #10 · answered by Married Male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋