2006-07-22 01:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
When I was younger I was obsessed with guys. I had a crush almost constantly - I read my journals now and feel sick how much time I worried about these guys, most of whom nothing happened. I spent so many hours in strategies of how to get him to notice me, theorizing what he was thinking, hating any girls that got in my way... wasted time. So much happened to me other than boys when I was young and all I can read in my journals are about the boys I had crushes on that don't matter any more.
I know it's hard not to think about "him" but try to move on and not worry about it, if it is meant to be it will happen. I met my husband when I wasn't looking, we've been happily married for 13 years so far. Enjoy your youth and your friends, don't worry love will come your way.
2006-07-22 02:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by 4 Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Letting him know that you are "obsessed" with him would definitely be the wrong thing. Everyone wants a bit of a challenge; it's human nature. Give him one. Be friendly and open but don't call him, follow him, harass him, or crowd him in any way. Even in our modern age, men still want to pursue. Give him enough attention to know that you are interested and leave the rest to him. Good luck.
2006-07-22 01:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being obsessed !!
You'll recognize that under this state, - you can't think straight, your emotions are a wreck, and the colors your perception of everything.
Give up on on him, get back to a "normal" state, -and then and only then, try to get him back into your everyday life.
2006-07-22 01:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be obsessed - guys don't like it when girls cling too much
2006-07-22 01:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by jonnygaijin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe stalking him and admitting youre obsessed about him.
2006-07-22 01:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think you would be doing anything wrong
but dont push him so much to make him think he can do what he likes to you
let me conact you more than u contact him
2006-07-22 01:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you date anyone else, what's so special about this guy that you think about him all the time?
2006-07-22 02:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men can smell when you want them too much. they want to do the chasing. play it cool when you're around him. be confident and nonchalant.
2006-07-22 02:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by lil_miss_education 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think at him all day long, make other things, and the obsecion will disappear :)
2006-07-22 01:59:21 · answer #9 · answered by alecsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STALKER
2006-07-22 01:58:36 · answer #10 · answered by goosebumpz7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋