i love one man i got married leaving behind whole world and after marrige he left me... without telling me d reason...i m searching him from last ten days what shud i do?
2006-07-22 01:06:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did he leave you or is he missing? If you can't find him and he has been missing 48 hours, then go and file a missing person's report. Ten days is a long time, I would think that something is wrong unless he told you that he was leaving you and the marriage was over. I would find him and give him the opportunity to explain himself and if he did not then file for divorce yourself. Good luck.
2006-07-22 01:15:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
your story is sad and there is very little to say about its sadness...
Sharing with partners is a wonderful thing in life but sometimes hassles get in the way without anyone seeing them or realizing their existance before everything rises to its occasion.
the reason for leaving may have been cropping into the mind for a very very long time. I am sure he/she did not wake up in the morning saying 'wow today I leave'. There must have been a big fight, another friend in the middle, or a valid reason to disrupt, destroy a friendship and a so-called 'best day of your lives' to burn down to ruins within 4 days.
Obviously you know more than we know, but I suggest you do ask a professional person for help unless you have somebody you can trust and discuss all details with him/her. At this point in stage you have nothing more to loose, so I would suggest that you start the story from A to Z with a trustful person in order to
1. get rid of a percentage of your sadness - it might inflict on your personality
2. try and sort your life out
3. sharing always helps to see things from a different perspective
4. try and find a solution - the answer might be just behind you door but you may not be seeing it considering your sadness and shock of the moment.
Good Luck
2006-07-22 08:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what country you are from, but maybe he did this to stay in your country, I know you left to marry him, but this may be the case. Immediately call the state you were married in and report that you have been abandoned, if you were married in a church, contact them and apply for an annulment. Don't wait for him to come back with excuses, if he really loves you and he just got spooked, then you can do it all again if you want to, this time with your terms. Contact someone immediately, no matter how much you love him, you don't deserve this.
2006-07-22 08:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get an annulment. Its not to late to rejoin your the world you left. Sometimes you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before finding a prince. Yours turned out to be a TOAD.
2006-07-22 08:17:05 · answer #4 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait, maybe he just realized that you don't need to leave the world you came from when you get married but it should be a fusion of both worlds. he Will come back he's still in shock of what he left behind.
2006-07-22 08:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by fenrir_131 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go back to your world. Stop searching for him. Get the marriage annulled. No man is worth giving up your life for; especially one that clearly doesn't care about you.
2006-07-22 08:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by heartwrench 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Babe i pity you.... I know that must be really terrible... Dont go for any wrong conclusions... He mite b returning within a month but first tell cops bout ur problem and let them search for him. Once found sit and talk and if he wishes to leave you dont compell him, he will realise his mistake and get bac to you... God will help you
2006-07-22 08:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow 4 days u probably didn't give to him before so he found a way to pop it lol that's sad for 4 days i hate to say that did he say he's leaving u or what happened during those 4 days or maybe something happend to him like murdered or something
2006-07-22 08:12:04 · answer #8 · answered by shadow_relevant03 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did he pay the rent or own the house, stay and try to contact city police and see if something might have happened to him! it may not be his fault!
2006-07-22 08:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is one of the reason people say marrige suck.
2006-07-22 08:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋